HAPPY RELATIONSHIP: Your Partner Wants You to Be - Nice!

7.06.2012 | By: JP

We forget all to often that what we need most from our partner is niceness. But that is only one of the aspects of a happy relationship...

Every relationship has to be based on honesty, trust and mutual respect. (PhotoXpress)

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Rule 1 – Do not try to change your partner

Love your partner the way they are, pluses and minuses together. Learn to cherish the positive aspects of your relationship and do not obsess over negative ones.

Rule 2 – Make love often and passionately

Sex in a relationship is not everything, but it's a lot. Try to keep the initial passion alive and spice up your sex life with exciting novelties. Do not let boredom and routine take over your sex life.

Rule 3 – Be understanding

In hard times, offer a friendly word and a shoulder to cry on to your partner. Listen to them and try to understand their problems and fears, and then try to help them find a solution.

Rule 4 – Don’t consider them self-evident

In hard times of uncertainty remember the moments, when your partner meant the world to you. Be thankful for their presence in your life and do not consider it a self-evident fact.

Rule 5 – Be proud of your partner

Believe in what they are doing and shower them with praise and suggestions. Show interest in your partner's interests, since if you do not, they will stop thinking of you as an integral part of their live and look for self-affirmation somewhere else.

Rule 6 – Niceness is a foundation of every relationship

Even more than with your friends or even complete strangers, you have to be nice to your partners. Be loving and do not use them as a handy doormat you can pile your frustrations on. A gentle word opens the heart of every woman, but men are not so insensitive themselves, as you might think.