Which Types of Sex Is It Best to Avoid?
Intercourse with your ex and under the influence of alcohol are two quite common types of intercourse which bring unpleasant consequences.
Too much alcohol won't improve your performance in bed (PhotoXpress)
Sexual intercourse after the break up
This usually happens when two people have just decided to end a relationship. Because the feelings between partners are still strong, they end up in bed for one last time. The break up makes us vulnerable and sad, so we need closeness, hugs and kisses. Instead of looking for comfort, objective advice and emotional support of our friends, we sometimes run back into the arms of our ex.
Sleeping together is a sort of saying goodbye, because we are aware it probably won't happen ever again. It can also be a sign that we are consciously not ready to accept the fact that the relationship is over. Even though we are firmly decided that we only want to say goodbye and that we won't repeat it, the question remains if this way of ending the relationship is effective.
It can also happen that we start having second thoughts after the break up or that we continue to sleep together from time to time. If the partners still love each other but the differences are too big, this kind of a relationship can be more painful than anything else. Sexual intercourse after the break up can be dangerous because it blurs our sound judgment and makes us delay putting an end to a non-functioning relationship.
Sexual intercourse under the influence of alcohol
Sexual intercourse under the influence of alcohol is bound to end in a bad way. Too much alcohol causes erection problems for many men so you should be careful with how much you drink. A glass of wine as an addition to a romantic dinner or to gather the courage for a conversation with a pretty girl is fine, but don't exaggerate.
If you drink a whole bottle of wine, don't expect the sexual encounter to be any good, because you will be more clumsy and you can fall asleep right in the middle of it. Women get aroused more quickly if they drink but they are not very good drinkers. Think about it, do you really need alcohol at the parties? Try to impress with you charisma instead. If you are sober, you will have a better judgment about whether you want to take a sexy stranger home and seduce her or if she is not your type at all.
Too much alcohol will definitely blur your judgment and besides, everybody looks more attractive in a dark club under the dimmed lights. But don't forget that a glass too much can lead to an adventure you otherwise wouldn't want to happen. When you wake up, you might be disappointed when you see who is actually lying next to you and will regret it.
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