What Makes a Great Foreplay?

Foreplay is as important as the intercourse itself. Never skip it if you're looking for great sex. Read on for some foreplay tips!

Foreplay is understood to be a kind of overture into the main act, where the latter is vaginal intercourse. By regarding foreplay in this way we do it wrong, since it's in fact as important as penetration, if not more important. Especially women frequently complain that their lovers don't spend enough time petting them, cuddling with them and arousing them, but immediately rush to their crotches. And even though a quickie can be a very sensuous experience, we usually need some time before we get totally aroused and ready for sex, particularly as adults and when we grow older. At that age, men can't get an erection by merely looking at their partner's behind and women also require more time to get turned on and for their vagina to get moist. Besides, foreplay is part of the sexual act and can be quite exhilarating.

Is there something such as the ultimate in foreplay?

Unfortunately, there are no clear-cut answers when it comes to the question which kind of foreplay will bring you most pleasure. As with other things in life, you'll have to try several different approaches and manoeuvres, and listen carefully to the desires of your partner, while also closely observing their responses. Nevertheless, one thing is for sure: women often crave for their lovers to pay more attention to kissing than they do. Lips are one of the major erogenous zones and it's absolutely intolerable to ignore them! Keep that in mind also during the actual intercourse. Some women prefer to be gently kissed on their neck. What gets your woman excited is left for you to find out. Try everything and pay close attention to the way she reacts. In foreplay, observe the rule that variety enriches the world, and don't repeat yourself like a broken record.

Create a pleasant atmosphere

The first step to creating an intimate atmosphere for sex is the recognition of the value of foreplay. It's also essential to pay attention to small things that matter. For example, it's good if your bedroom is comfortably warm and not an icehouse, so you won't have to wrap yourself in thick blankets as soon as possible. Make sure that the sheets are clean and smell nice. Before you go on, consider one thing that most men overlook. Your woman has probably spent a considerable amount of time, energy and money to choose the lingerie she's wearing. In it, she feels sexy and attractive, that's why she probably wants to stay in it for at least a few minutes. Instead of immediately taking her out of her clothes, admire her body in her hot underwear which she has chosen just for you.

There's no single solution as regards a great foreplay. What's important is to practice it and to know that it's something indispensable. Make some effort to use your imagination. If there's one thing that is extremely unerotic, it's doing everything the same way all the time.