What Can You Learn from Pornography?

Surprisingly, porn films can contain certain useful lessons on sexuality. Which are these?

It's a fact that you shouldn't take seriously everything you can see in porn films, but this doesn't mean that one can't learn anything from watching pornography.

Sex is fun

Sex in pornography is always treated as something light and entertaining. Before and after it there are no heavy words exchanged, and no deep conversations. Even though you should take sex seriously, porn can remind you that from time to time sex should be nothing but pure fun.

Mutual masturbation? Why not!

Porn can be a pleasant spice for foreplay and watching a good porn film can really amuse you both. You can use it especially as a stimulation for mutual masturbation. Masturbation shouldn't be associated with moments of loneliness. Include it in your hot hours in bed. However, you shouldn't be deceived by the portrayal of masturbation in porn! There, it's usually a bit exaggerated to make everything clearly visible - you should be gentler than that.

Pornography as a source of ideas

The opponents of pornography claim that it presents sex unrealistically, but even though this is true to some extent, porn films can still be a rich source of ideas. For example, they show a great variety of places where you can have sex, and thus teach us to think of various places in a new way and consider them as a possible inspiration. Yes, we can have sex anywhere, as long as we don't offend other people. Sex in public places, where there is always a certain degree of fear that you will be caught in the act, brings a lot of excitement and a sense of adventure.

Take turns!

There practically isn't a porn movie where either a man or a woman act only as a passive recipient in sexual intercourse. In porn films, men and women constantly change roles and both give and receive pleasure, which is actually the key to a satisfying sex life. And if you run out of ideas how to go about oral intercourse, you can always watch porn. You shouldn't take literally everything you see, but you should take it as a starting point for further thinking and action. If you keep doing the same things over and over again, or if your partner always lies immovably in your arms, your sex life together can soon come to a bitter end.

You don't have to be naked to be sexy!

Pornography can offer interesting ideas regarding what to wear in bed. In porn, women often wear exciting underwear or sexy costumes, although they don't stay long in them. Now you know where to look for the ideas for the kind of garters or corsets you should surprise your partner with for the New Year's eve.

Still, don't believe everything you see

Pornstars may seem enthusiastic over enormous dildos in their bodily openings, but your darling probably won't be that happy to feel them inside her. Porn actresses are actresses and even if they don't enjoy something, they will fake it. Their acting shouldn't deceive you into believing that everything you see in porn movies really brings women pleasure and that you can afford to do almost anything that comes to your mind. As it is put in some documentaries: don't try this at home!