The Female Perspective on Sex

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Women care about who they want to have sex with

While men are mostly focused on feminine charms such as breasts, buttocks, and the vagina when looking for a potential sexual partner, women see sex much more subtly. This, of course ,doesn’t mean that women aren’t sexual beings and that they aren’t aroused by an erect penis. It means that they are much more interested in the character of their potential sexual partner, their feelings, their emotions, and their intellect. Women find it important to find out more about someone before they decide if having sex with them would be an option. Women also have a different approach when it comes to showing that they're not interested in sex. This particular kind of approach is often overlooked or misunderstood by men completely. An additional mistake which men make when they try to understand how women see sex is that they think that women are always in the same distinct mood when they would like to have sex, and that men only need to arouse them the same way all the time. Women need a bit more time to get aroused and are aroused by completely different things than men would think.

Women see sex as an advantage

While men are constantly worried about erection, premature ejaculation, and about whether  they will be able to arouse a woman properly, women don't lose any sleep over their performance. They are namely able to arouse men very easily. If they play their charms right, they can completely adapt their sexual partner to them and enjoy sex to the fullest. On the other hand, men are in advantage when it comes to orgasm, of which some women are incapable of. Men can also be aroused very quickly and can therefore come very quickly as well. Women are not strictly programmed to get aroused by distinctly predetermined stimuli. But they are capable of determining what men like very soon and can respond to it accordingly. This enables women to see sex as something less predetermined and more experimental. Men are very predictable when it comes to sex, while women see sex as a means to thrive in their unpredictability when it comes to getting aroused. It is also a fact that women are more demanding when it comes to sex and it takes more time to satisfy them to a T, while most men are just happy to ejaculate.

Women see sex beyond the penis

Women see sex as something that is much more then just an act through which they will be satisfied solely with the help of an erect penis of the right size. They rather focus on the "personality” of the penis. They find its “whims” both challenging and amusing. They regard  the penis as something that belongs to both their partner and them and is capable of giving them both pleasure. This is  why women enjoy satisfying their partner, too, while men tend to be more focused on their own personal pleasure. Women also see sex as an opportunity to experiment - sometimes they want it rough while at other times sex needs to be gentle - while men mostly like to keep to the same kind of banging. The same goes for oral sex too. Women sometimes like to give it and sometimes to receive it, while men are not particularly sure about what to make of oral sex in the first place. Regarding sexuality, women see sex as an opportunity to experiment, while men prefer to stick to the same old tricks and avoid what they  perceive as unnecessary complications.