Interview: Virgin at 29!

28.06.2011 | By: Izabela M

We talked to a very pleasant girl who’s still saving herself for ‘Mister Right'.

Some girls wait almost half their lives waiting for their true love. (PhotoXpress)

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Our charming interviewee is proof that there are still romantic girls in the world who are waiting for their true love. The interviewee wanted to remain anonymous.

Let’s start with the characteristics of a man who would share this special moment with you. What should a man who represents ‘Mister Right’ have?

Hmm… I’d naturally have to find him attractive and I would have to like his character. I don’t know... you simply feel these things. I haven’t had the right feeling with anyone yet.

So you’ve had boyfriends?

Yes, of course. I’ve had quite a few relationships, but they mostly lasted for as long as the men were willing to be patient when it comes to sex.

But were you never tempted to give yourself to someone physically?

Yes. I had many moments of weakness, but a silent voice was always there to stop me. I’m afraid to give this special gift to someone who would only use me and I’d lose something that really means to me forever on account of this reckless moment.

But the boys you’ve been with weren’t virgins, right?

No, except when I was a teenager (laughs). I’m aware that finding a virgin at my age is like trying to find a needle in a haystack, so I don’t expect that.

Don’t you care that the man will be more sexually experienced than you?

I don’t care. I hope I’ll meet someone who’ll be able to appreciate my ‘gift’, so that I’ll always represent a special woman in his life despite his previous experiences. Still, I hope there won’t be too many of them (laughs).

Nowadays girls are very young when having their first sexual experiences. How did you manage to keep your virginity for so long?

It’s simple. Years passed without me meeting someone I trusted so much. To do something like this, you have to give up a lot of things, have strong will, believe in true love and you have to be abstinent. Young girls who experience sexuality too soon, like at 13, want to let go of their childhood too soon, in my opinion.

Is your decision religiously connected?

Well... almost every religion teaches us abstinence and is in favor of sexuality only during marriage. No. My faith has nothing to do with my decision because I know that I won’t wait until marriage. I’ll wait until I meet the right man to share this first experience with.

Let’s be a bit more direct. What about masturbation?

Just like every other person in the world I’m also a sexual being. I take care of my sexual urges myself.

Have you every thought you might be attracted to women and that you don’t really want to have intercourse with a man?

If I was a lesbian, I’d feel it by now. I find some women very beautiful and attractive, but when I look at them, I don’t feel any sexual desire, only the wish to compliment them.

Have you ever considered you might be too picky when it comes to men and that you have to change or lower your standards?

It’s not as if I’m expecting a knight in shining armor who looks like Brad Pitt (laughs). I only want a kindred spirit with whom I’ll be able to share this important part of myself.

Lately, the world has been flooded with news about people offering their virginity on the Internet for money. Would you do something like that, say for 500 thousand Euros (650 thousand Dollars)?

Certainly not, even though I do need a new car… (laughs). I’m joking. That’s the same as prostitution to me, so I would never even consider something like this.

How do you imagine your first sexual act?

I imagine it in a very romantic and gentle atmosphere and certainly not in the backseat of a car or something like that. I don’t know why, but my fantasies happen at the seaside and gentle music is also playing in the background. I have a very pleasant image in my head about how it will happen.

Doesn’t that seem like a fantasy and unrealistic to you? Almost all girls describe their first experiences as unpleasant, painful and awkward.

Those girls also imagined their first sex to look something like I imagine it to look like now, right? (laughs)

Thank you for sharing your story with us. I wish from the bottom of my heart that you meet the right person and experience only the beautiful moments of love with him.

Thank you.