How To Tell Your Partner Is Faking Orgasms
Do you have a feeling your woman is faking orgasms? Why do women fake orgasms? How can you recognize a faked orgasm and what should you do? Find answers in the following article.
Real or faked? (jlp)
Men often get the impression that a female orgasm is an extremely complicated matter. But that’s a bit exaggerated. You will learn that by pressing the right buttons your woman will never fake and will easily reach any
type of orgasm. Some women are simply obsessed with clitoral orgasm, which is a consequence of clitoris stimulation, while other prefer stimulation of the G-spot or so called vaginal orgasm. A few lucky ones manage to experience both. But you should know that sexual intercourse, which doesn’t include any special positions, only the missionary, rarely offers enough stimulation for a woman, especially if you want her to have a clitoral orgasm. So when your partner starts breathing deeply and is about to reach the peak after just a minute of such sex she’s probably putting on a good show and faking an orgasm.How to recognize a faked orgasm?
It is absolutely necessary to keep in mind that there is no universal pattern of orgasm. Still, all orgasms have a few mutual characteristics. If you notice any of the following signs you will have to consider the possibility that your partner isn’t as honest as you would wish when it comes to having an orgasm and is only showing off her acting skills. So pay attention to unnatural moaning, which sounds mechanic and is uncoordinated with the movements of your bodies. Another sign of a woman faking an orgasm is when her breathing suddenly changes from being deep and panting to being completely relaxed and shallow. Apart from this you usually feel contractions of her vaginal muscles, which will never take place if an orgasm is faked.
Women often fake orgasms because they don’t want to hurt their lover. (jlp)
Why is she faking?
Before you get all hot and bothered and cry because your partner is faking orgasms you should remember that she probably does it to please you. Maybe you are a lousy lover with two left hands and your partner doesn’t want to hurt your pride. Nonetheless, this isn’t always the reason for faking an orgasm. Some women do it to end sex- perhaps the penetration causes pain and unpleasant feelings. A painful sexual intercourse is a consequence of many different reasons, either of a physical or a psychological nature. Besides this, your lady might be faking an orgasm because she doesn’t know what it feels like to have an orgasm. This happens due to the fact that some women are totally unfamiliar with their body and 
erogenous zones. Many women don’t masturbate at all and never discover what they like and feel during an orgasm.
Don’t judge- find a solution together!
You shouldn’t allow this problem to become the reason for a fight because nothing constructive will come out of it. The first step to solving the problem of fake orgasms is undoubtedly a serious and honest talk. The problem often lies in women who don’t tell their lovers what they do wrong or what they should improve in their sex life. They act like this to spare their partner the humiliation but unfortunately this only makes the problem worse - a woman fakes orgasms because her lover is lousy in bed; he doesn’t satisfy her needs, so even more faked orgasms follow. If you want to help your partner and improve your sex life, ask her what she wants and what you do wrong. Maybe it will help if you try some other position apart from the classic missionary or surprise her with an erotic and sensual massage. You can help her achieve a true orgasm by remembering her clitoris while penetrating. Stimulate it with your finger or an erotic toy. If it happens that your partner doesn’t actually know what an orgasm is and which touches arouse her, encourage her to discover her most sensitive erogenous zones by masturbating.
Still, a faked orgasm here and there doesn’t mean the end of the world. The big O isn’t just that ultimate pleasure and the peak of sex; it’s also its integral part. You can enjoy sex without having an orgasm and maybe being obsessed with reaching an orgasm is the real cause of its absence.
