How to Lose Your Virginity Prudently?

Many people regret their first intercourse. Don't become one of them. Choose the right time to lose your virginity.

A virgin is a person who hasn't yet experienced sexual intercourse with penetration. Virginity is a state of body and mind, but it doesn't say anything about what kind of person you are.

Deciding on when to have sex for the first time isn't easy. You have to be absolutely certain that you trust yourself and your partner. Sex is an extraordinary thing, so don't let the first sexual experience spoil everything for you. Also, there's nothing wrong with virginity. If you haven't had sex yet, this doesn't mean that you are worth less or more. Your virginity is simply a matter of making a decision as an individual and it means just what you want it to mean.

Virginity doesn't necessarily mean that you are sexually inexperienced. Prior to your first sexual intercourse with penetration, you can consult a gynaecologist who will suggest the appropriate means of contraception. The number of people who consult a gynaecologist prior to their first sexual intercourse is higher than you may think. If you're afraid of such a conversation, there are many many books and articles written on the subject of losing one's virginity. However, we still recommend that you see a gynaecologist.

Knowledge about sexual intercourse, before actually having sex, helps reduce your fear. For those who have gained some knowledge about contraception and the physical and psychological aspects of the first sexual experience, it is much easier to decide on when is the right time to do it.

Losing your virginity will not make you more mature. It's true that this is one of the most significant life experiences, but maturity comes with time and the attention you devote to yourself. Your 'first time' means that you're at the beginning of a beautiful new path, if you go about this experience properly.

If you're 16 and eager to have sex primarily because a lot of your peers are supposedly not virgins any more, you have to realize that all that glitters isn't gold. However, if you have decided to have sex despite your age, you should try to make the experience unforgettable by first gaining some knowledge about sex. How many of your friends felt that their first time was nothing special? Would you like to become one of them?

Knowledge is power

 
Let's say it again: it's particularly important that you lose your virginity with someone you trust. If you trust each other, you'll be able to relax and consequently enjoy it even more. You'll also be able to have an honest conversation about your expectations or fears. It will be easier to say to such a person how you want your first time to be like. The first sexual experience may be unpleasant for some women, because the hymen can be torn during penetration, which can be painful. It will be easier to say that it hurts to the person who knows you and loves you.

Therefore, follow these two essential pieces of advice: learn about sex as much as you can prior to your first sexual intercourse, and do it with the person you love and trust.