Are Virgins a Bad Choice for Relationships?

20.03.2013 | By: A. B.

On the one hand you would like to be her first, but on the other, the situation has a lot of disadvantages.

A lot of men believe virgins are a bad choice for a serious relationship. (PhotoXpress)

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Virgins want to try others sooner or later

It is a known fact that virgins are inexperienced, have not gone wild yet, and there is a chance that sooner or later they will want other guys. On the other hand, a woman becomes very attached to her first partner and has the feeling that he is special and will always belong to her. Especially if she did not lose her virginity at a party but with a guy that she was in love with. The feeling of being her first might be interesting, but that can cause a number of problems that will make your life very hard. She might be tempted to be with another man and find out what's different. She might not be satisfied with your penis alone. Especially after a while when she will get bored. Of course, this does not apply to all virgins, but there is without a doubt a stronger chance, as opposed to an experienced woman who is unwilling to jump from one lover to the other.

Is an experienced woman a better choice?

According to the above, it is a better choice. As said before, it is best to have a woman who had a few men. Therefore, a woman who already went wild and will have no interest in other men. Such a woman will be well aware that you are the best lover for her and she really does not need to wander any more. You may be able to convince a virgin that you are the best, but the lack of evidence will tempt her to confirm your words. The same goes for men. Why should a woman choose a virgin if he does not have a clue what is going on, and if he will be tempted to be with another woman, maybe only to try and feel how things are elsewhere.

Men are the same

When choosing a man, it might be better to get someone who had a few women already, a man who can enjoy himself and appreciate that you are the best lover. The feeling of taking his virginity might be pleasant, but it without a doubt does not compensate for the negative consequences of the fact that he was a virgin. In any case, why would you want to be his first lover? It seems to me that it is much more important to be his last lover.