5 Main Reasons Why Women Fake Orgasms!
Are you wondering why women even fake orgasms? Here are 5 of the main reasons for faking it.
Women fake orgasms to end the intercourse as soon as possible. (Photoxpress)
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It is true, women do fake orgasms. In a research which included more than 30,000 women, almost all of them admitted to faking at least once in their life. Most do it occasionally, while some don’t even know what a real orgasm feels like. There is only one motive hidden behind this noble deception: the woman wants the sexual intercourse to end as soon as possible and she doesn’t want to hurt her partner or make him feel like she is not enjoying having intercourse with him or doesn’t want to make him feel like he can’t satisfy her. But there can be many kinds of reasons.
1. Reason for faking an orgasm: Being tired and forced
The most common reason is tiredness. Nowadays women have a great deal of responsibility at home and where they work. They could use only a hot bath and a good book after a hard day, but they don’t want to rudely turn down their horny partner, who has different plans for that night. Some women don’t even dare reject partners because this would lead to another argument or perhaps another black eye. Take my word for it: sexual intercourse on command isn’t an aphrodisiac and it certainly won’t help her have an orgasm.
2. Reason for faking an orgasm: Boredom and pain
It might be possible that sexual intercourse which started out in an exciting and passionate way gets pretty tiring after a while. The man won’t stop until he takes her to an orgasm, so he tries too much, makes unnecessary moves, while she starts getting bored. If we add possible pain and other unpleasant things due to long-lasting rubbing, faking an orgasm seems like an emergency brake which can stop this out-of-control train.
3. Reason for faking an orgasm: Not being relaxed
For most women only the mechanic element isn’t enough for an orgasm. She must feel a special bond to the partner which grows in time. It is also important to be relaxed. That is why it is not surprising that most faked orgasms happen during sexual intercourse at the beginning of a relationship or during a one-night stand.
4. Reason for faking an orgasm: Medical problems
Some women can’t even have an orgasm due to physiological or psychological reasons. Researchers claim that 10 to 15 percent of women never have an orgasm, while a further 10 to 15 percent can only reach an orgasm through masturbation. In this case it is best for a woman to consult her gynecologist or psychologist because he or she might be able to help her get rid of possible psychological blockages.
5. Reason for faking an orgasm: Looking for intimacy
A deeper reason might be that the woman really isn’t looking for an orgasm but only wants some intimacy – tight embracing, gentle caresses and hot kisses. That is why men have to try to make their beloved partner feel loved as well, not only between the sheets. It pays to be even a little considerate.
Don’t forget – we are all actors and the bed is merely one of the stages in this world. So don’t hold it against your partner if she admits she fooled you a few times.
You can find more advice on
Fake Orgasm in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.
