When Women Demand Too Much in Bed

Many men crack under the pressure because of the fear of not being able to please their woman and not being able to offer her everything she dreams of. When do women demand too much?

Don’t you come before I do!

 
As you know, men have problems with delaying their orgasm, especially if the intercourse takes a long time and if their partner expects a marathon session, if she’s not satisfied with just one orgasm and if she expects only penetration to reach the climax over and over again. An additional problem occurs when she tells her man that he must get her to an orgasm, that he can’t come until she comes, or that he should give her pleasure for at least two hours straight. This is immense psychological and physical pressure, which may cause the man to crack under the pressure and even develop potency problems.

It’s clear that a woman requires more attention during intercourse to get to an orgasm. However, if women demand too much of their partners, things don't turn out well, especially if they are unwilling to make compromises and are even angry with men. Let's say that a man comes too quickly and he wants to satisfy her with his tongue, but she still demands penetration. This is too great a burden to place on a man and sex will be without pleasure, turning into hard work, where the poor guy will only think of what he should do. Every man tries to sexually satisfy his partner according to his capabilities and the woman should know where the limit is and what normal human abilities actually are.

Let there be no mistake, we’re not on the side of those men who finish in five minutes and then roll to the other side of the bed. We are talking about men who do everything for their woman, but she’s still not satisfied. Some women demand too much.

Lick me until I come!

Women love cunnilingus, the sexual practice where the man stimulates her between her legs with his tongue. Some women can only achieve orgasm in this way, which means that their man must be really excellent in this area. This is all fine, but the problem occurs when the woman needs more than the normal amount of time, when she wants to come more than once or when she prolongs her orgasm intentionally for so long that the man’s tongue starts to hurt. Let there be no mistake, all men like to lick their partners, but within normal limits and as long as they enjoy this as well. Some women really need more time to achieve an oral orgasm, but we’re talking about women who are egotists and go overboard with the amount of time they want to spend on sexual activity. If a man licks the crotch for five or ten minutes, it’s clear that their partner might not approve of that. She needs and wants more. If you're not up to the task, you can handily satisfy her in other ways, for example with the use of a vibrator.

I want a giant penis

 
Many women fantasize about giant penises and can’t come to terms with the fact that their partner doesn’t have such a monster. These are women who consider the length of the cock to be the most important part of sex. They believe six inches and a half won’t give them the right orgasm. Those who don’t have a way with words will even tell their partner: “Too bad your penis isn’t bigger.” This effectively destroys male potency, as it is a strong blow to the man's psyche, which will need a lot of time to recover. Dear ladies, of what use is a giant penis if the man doesn’t know how to use it. A big penis is also impractical. It’s not easy to fit it through the anal opening and it’s impossible to perform deep throat with it. Still, many women demand one from their men. Some unfortunate guys even decide for an operation or buy pumps that supposedly enlarge the penis, just to satisfy their lovers.

Why aren’t you like my ex boyfriends?

 
A woman who was used to miracles with her ex partner, will expect these miracles from her current one as well. The thought that your ex was a better lover and that your present partner will never be as good can be very damaging to your man, so don’t let him think it. If you miss intercourse as it used to be for you, don’t explain it by mentioning your ex, but bring up your "idea" in the sense that you’d like to perform a particular thing because you want to. Comparisons are never good, especially if they’re negative.

A man is unfortunately not a robot

 
Dear ladies, it’s right to demand a great deal from your men because they’ll become lazy otherwise. But don’t go too far or you'll make them miserable. And if you’re making demands, do it in a diplomatic, gentle and cunning way. A man will break if you tell him that nothing good will come out of his not fulfilling your expectations. Don’t do that. Be clever: if you’re one of those women who want to get things done their way by whatever means, we suggest you are understanding and kind to your lover and that you don’t forget that a man isn’t a robot, where you’d only have to push a few buttons.