Things Men Are Afraid of During Intercourse

What is it that men are afraid of in bed? How can women make their fears disappear?

 

Most men are terribly afraid of letting you down in bed. (jlp)

At first glance a self-confident and brave man becomes nervous and scared when "mission" sex comes up. Do you know someone like that or are you yourself one of them? Many men have problems in bed because of being so nervous. Take a look at the most common causes for men's fears when it comes to pleasures in the sack.

The fear of performing poorly

Size doesn't matter. You can still perfectly satisfy your lover with a smaller penis.


There are many men who fear that their penises will fail them in crucial moments. Some men avoid intimate relations with their partners for this reason, which can increase the tension in their relationship. It's people who have had some embarrassing experience in the past that most often find themselves in this situation. The bitter memory of failure can impede their future sexual relations so much that they might not even want to do it with anyone at all.

If you think that your partner suffers from a fear of performing poorly in bed, it's important that you are patient and that you don't pressure him. Show him he means a lot to you as a person and try to create a relaxing atmosphere. You can do this with the help of funny games. Take the initiative for your intercourse and be in charge.

The fear of being compared to other men

Compliment his appearance to help him get past his fears. (jlp)


Men don't like hearing about your experiences with your ex partners, so the less you say about them the better. Every man wants to be the only Romeo for his Juliette, so any mention of previous sexual adventures may cause insecurities and doubts about his abilities in bed.
If you tell him about your bad experiences with exes, he may be afraid that you'll say such things to other people as well, he being the protagonist of your stories.

It's best if you show him your feelings for him and if you don't compare him to someone else.

The fear of not being attractive

You probably thought that men are not as concerned with their looks as women ... Yeah, right! Many men spend a lot of time in the gym, so that their bodies would look as nice as the body of a famous athlete on a jumbo poster. Sometimes men even prefer having intercourse in the dark and in positions where the woman cannot take a look at his entire figure.

 

Men are afraid of coming too soon and leaving you unsatisfied. (jlp)

You can compliment your partner's appearance and help him get rid of unnecessary fears. You don't need to lie and say that his body looks like David Beckham's, but point out those parts of his body that you really like. For example, you can say you feel safe around him, that his ass looks sexy and many other encouraging things that will reduce his worries about his aesthetic deficiencies.

The fear of premature ejaculation

Men often ask women about the way they have orgasms and about how they feel about their intercourse. The reason for asking these questions is again fear - the fear that the intercourse didn't last long enough. They are also worried that they didn't satisfy the woman and that she will look for satisfaction with another man. 

Almost every man faces the problem of premature ejaculation at least once in their life. If you wish to reduce his fears, suggest longer foreplay. Your partner will become more self-confident and you'll have enough time to get completely aroused.

The fear that his penis is too small for your needs

 

The perennial question: was her ex better in bed? (jlp)

 

Everyone should know that penis size doesn't pay any role in intercourse. Still, men are even nowadays convinced that size is the only thing that matters. Some may even become obsessed with size, which could subsequently mean a huge problem for your relationship.

What do women have to do? If words don't help, make sure he'll be proud of his penis. The positions which enable a deeper and stronger penetration (for example from behind) should be the key to your deeper intimate relationship.

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