The Basic Rules of Flirting (Part 2)
Conquer the game of flirting where every step and each move matters and you will also conquer her heart.
While flirting don't think about the possibility that the object of your desire might become your wife one day. (Photoxpress)
Flirting tip #1: Flirt with your heart
People flirt out of different reasons: because of the power and privileges, sex and love, better job or a restaurant table, or anything else you can get just by winking and a nice smile. The basic purpose of flirting remains in the department of romance - by flirting we send a message to a woman that we desperately want her. Flirting is an ancient art which has at least two basic goals. The first is to conquer the object of your desire and the second is to keep her. Despite the fact that the rules of courtship have changed and the serenades and love letters were replaced by discotheques and text messages, the secret of successful flirting still lies in the art of making someone feel good in their own skin.
Flirting tip #2: Be here and now
While you're flirting don't think about the possibility that the current object of your desire might become your wife and the mother of your children one day, or that you'll have her for one night only. Flirting should be fun for both of you, so don't interrogate and embarrass the other person. Who cares if nothing comes out of it? Meeting someone new is always nice, while a sincere interest in a certain person is always flattering. Forget about the future and don't worry about things that are not important at the moment. Pay all your attention to the present moment and the person in front of you.
Flirting tip #3: Recognize easy targets
Pay attention to women around you and try to recognize the obvious signs of flirting. Is the object of your desire paying any special attention to you compared to other people in the room, have your eyes met several times already, does she look straight into your eyes while listening to you, has she touched you yet and does she often and sincerely laugh at your jokes? If you notice at least a few of these early symptoms of flirting, then you're not far from the final success.
Flirting tip #4: Finish where you started
If our eyes already met several times in a full room, then gather your courage, smile and say hello. If her response is positive, don't hesitate but approach her immediately and introduce yourself. Flirting for no special reason has no sense whatsoever, unless you use flirting only for self-confirmation. If you already approached her but then realized she is not so perfect as you thought she was, don't ask for her number - it will only prolong the agony. If you manage to get the number, call her the next day. Don't play the game of cats and mice right at the start of the relationship.
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