Oops! A Naughty Text Message in the Wrong Hands!

You know the unpleasant feeling when you dial the wrong number? Multiply the feeling by a hundred and you will know what it feels like if you send a really 'naughty' text message to the wrong recipient. So what to do?

If you send a naughty message to the wrong person, apologize instantly

It is best that you instantly and sincerely apologize to the wrong recipient of a naughty text message. If you happen to send a naughty text message to a friend you can add a small joke to your apology and you will laugh your way out of it. Of course your friend won't forget about the incident and he or she will use the opportunity to tease you about it once in a while, but that shouldn't be such a big problem, should it?

If you send a naughty text message to a person that you assume will be disgusted or angry about it, let's say to your mother, then you should add a nice phone call to the apology and explain the situation. You do not have to explain who was supposed to be the recipient of the naughty message or what are you doing in your spare time. However, it is advisable to apologize for not being careful enough when sending the naughty message.

Ups, the receiver of my naughty message is my co-worker!

If it happens that you send a naughty text message to someone with whom you are associated through business, your apology should be business-like too. The last thing you need after such an incident is to look unprofessional in front of your co-worker or even in front of your boss.

Apology should be something similar to this: Last night you received my message by mistake. What happened is unforgivable. My private life should remain private and I am deeply sorry for my mistake. I hope you will not underestimate my abilities because of this incident. I assure you that nothing like this will ever happen again.

What if there is a naughty photo attached to your message?

In this case, the situation can be even more delicate. If the photo ended in your friend's mobile phone, a coffee and a talk should be enough to solve the situation. If it went into the hands of your co-worker or boss, you will have to solve the situation personally and behind closed doors. Nothing indicates 'sexual harassment' more than a naughty message with a photo. This kind of a situation calls for serious measures and taking care of the consequences. In the end it all depends on the recipient and his or her reaction.

How to avoid such awkward situations?

You can avoid the embarrassment by checking every recipient twice and by being very careful. Even when the text message is sent you should check if it got into the right hands. When you are not sure about the number of the recipient, it is best if you first call the number and check. You can also avoid unpleasant incidents by deleting all the last dialed number and leaving only the one from your sympathy. Therefore, there will be no possibility of automatically choosing the wrong number.

Naughty text messages keep the sparks in a relationship and are more than welcome, but only when you completely trust the recipient. These kind of incidents are nothing unusual nowadays so do not be too embarrassed if it happens to you.

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