Make Your First Time Unforgettable

Many men will go limp during your first time together. Read on for prevention methods.

Your first time - In his head

The first intercourse is an event men wait for ever since they first masturbate. They naturally want to make a great performance when your first time together comes and do not want to be nervous and jittery. That is why the woman's role is so important during your first time. So, dear ladies, if you do not want his fire to burn out before you could even feel him inside you, follow this advice.

Your first time - Your clothes

Men love sexy lingerie, but the problem occurs when they have to take it off. Modern bras, various bodysuits and the likes are like a piece of heaven, but to a man thinking only about how to get to your skin at that moment, they could create difficulties.

Even though he practiced on his mother’s bra at home, everything can go wrong at that moment and he cannot get the damned bra unhooked. Especially because it is your first time, the situation can upset him so much that it may show on his member, which can suddenly become embarrassed and try to make itself as small as possible. Therefore it would be a good idea, at least for your first time, to wear underwear without many clasps or unusual buttons. His job will be made easiest if you put on a bra that unhooks in the front because that way he can actually see what he is doing.

Your first time - Your makeup

Makeup is also something men do not like in bed, be it your first time or not. Women who jump in the sack with all their makeup on and watch constantly that it does not start to run put men, or at least their buddies downstairs, to sleep again. Even though you feel you look better and sexier with makeup, step into the bathroom for a second and wipe the stuff off your face before getting busy. You will not only be doing him a favor but your sheets as well. They will appreciate you not leaving traces of your makeup.

Your first time - Has to be the best ever

Flowers, candles, gentle light and romantic music often create a pleasant atmosphere, but men usually start worrying that your first time together means more to you than to him. You should not go overboard with the romantic atmosphere, or at least tell him upfront about your expectations because unexpected surprises can really shake him up.

Your first time - Not shutting up

Talking is a great way of communicating, but if it is your first time use common sense. Men get majorly turned off when talking about things that have nothing to do with sex during intercourse. Do not forget that they can only do one thing at a time. If, during intercourse, you mention that you are going to have lunch at your mother’s house, for example, this means that he has to focus on something else and his arousal goes down the proverbial drain. Also, it is best not to tell him if he is doing something wrong, or that your clitoris is an inch or so higher than he believes, but instead grab his head and place it where you want it. This will prevent him from obsessing with having already failed on his first attempt. And after all, it is your first time together. Give him time, he will learn.

Your first time - In fantasy world

Men are usually more open to various fantasy games than women, but do not let them in on your fantasies on your first time. The first sexual experience with a real woman and not the one they imagine when masturbating or the one they see in magazines, but a real woman with curves, should be as simple as possible for men. Consequently, this means fewer mistakes and a more relaxed atmosphere.

Men are usually more sensitive during first intercourse than women, so it is best to be careful with them. Once you break the ice, you can do anything you want with them. To them, during your first time it is most important to leave a good impression and if it is good, they will be more confident and relaxed during any further intercourse.

And remember, use protection!

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