Make Her First Time a Wonderful Experience

Make sure that her first time is pleasurable and unforgettable!

Although some people think that virginity is old-fashioned, many women are still virgins in their 20s and 30s. If you're one of the people dating such a person and the person has decided that you are the man she wants to make love to for the first time, follow some of our tips which will help you rock her world. But remember that she is inexperienced and that most things she knows about sex are probably things she heard from her friends. This is where you come in. Chase away her nervousness and make sure that her first time is anything but regrettable.

Don't set any terms and conditions

 
Nobody likes being under pressure. It's alright to let her know that you want to take your relationship to the next level, but you don't want to give the impression that this is the only thing you strive for, do you? Women who are in their late 20s or 30s and still virgins obviously don't like any kind of pressure and are normally used to saying NO. If she's still a virgin at this age, this means that she's waiting for somebody special. By putting her under pressure you certainly won't look like Prince Charming!

Be in charge

In this situation, you are the experienced one and she will expect your support, tenderness and advice. Women in general love men who are capable of being in charge of the sexual game. Let her take the reigns every once in a while but remain the person who has the entire situation under control and who thus gives his partner a feeling of safety. She may beg you to take her virginity, but that doesn't mean she is truly ready. Since you are the experienced one, you must make sure she is highly aroused and moist enough before you guide her into the world of sex. She will remember her first time for the rest of her life so make sure that the memory won't be wrapped in pain.

Make sure she's relaxed

It's perfectly normal that she feels reserved and nervous the first time, but you should try to eliminate that with a few small tricks. Compliments like “You look very sexy,” and “I'm extremely attracted to you” work miracles. They will definitely give her confidence. 

Give her the feeling that your world evolves around her - and not only around her vagina. Take enough time to kiss and touch her body, as well as talk to her and find out what she likes and doesn't like. Let her know that she's the only one that matters here; in this way she will be able to relax completely.

Make effort to turn her on

Undoubtedly, this sounds like a cliché, but the matter is more important than you may think. Use all of your sexual experience to make her crave for sex. Start slowly and remember to kiss and pamper her while you stimulate her erogenous zones. Arousal will significantly lessen her sensitivity to pain.

Be ready to slow down or even stop

 
She might have been ready to lose her virginity at the beginning of the evening, but as the evening progressed, her intentions changed. This doesn't mean that she doesn't want you, it simply means that she isn't completely ready. Some women find it hard to say goodbye to their virginity, and sometimes they also need a bit more acknowledgment from you that you are indeed ready to wait. The fact that a man is ready to stop and take a step backwards may often be just the kind of affirmation a woman needs. Sometimes this is enough for her to decide to continue. In any case, a little compassion can only bring you extra points.

Though she's a virgin, she probably isn't as cold as ice. She's just waiting for the right person. Don't be afraid of the “good girls.” Instead show them what they are missing and teach them to be “naughty”.