LOVER OF HIS DREAMS: How to Drive Him Crazy With Foreplay

Do you have the feeling that your foreplay is always more of the same? Maybe it is time to surprise him with completely new approaches!

Foreplay of His Dreams - Method 1: Traditional Meets Modern

Instead of the usual foreplay - kissing, stimulation and sex - choose something different. Go home from work early, so you will arrive home before your boyfriend and create a seductive atmosphere. First, cook a great lunch with a great wine, which will awaken your senses. In truth this is a very classical manner of seduction, which we know from romantic movies, but it is often overlooked in the real life. Just like men forget old gentlemanly values, women are often not seductive enough. Instead of whining about the hard day in old sweatpants, think positive, think about sex. Put on some sexy underwear, maybe a costume from the sex shop, which will completely shock him, especially if he is not used to seeing you like this.

Wear a boring sweater over your sexy clothes, so he will not suspect anything. Wait for him with a good lunch. The dessert is going to be even better: you yourself. But this time, do not follow the usual foreplay routine but take charge. You can prepare the apartment beforehand: scented candles, a bathtub in which you massage him and not only his shoulders. Maybe, instead of taking him to the bedroom, you can take him to the anteroom. Make love in a place you have not used for it in a long time: on the floor, in front of the fireplace, on the counter. Be spontaneous and react to him. Show him where he is to touch you and test different touches. Instead of gentle kisses try more passionate ones, instead of the passive role, assume the lead this time. Put him in handcuffs and show him your inner bad girl. Men like bad girls.

Foreplay of His Dreams - Method 2: In Nature

This is easier to do in summer, since you can drive him completely crazy with short and see-through dresses. Drive to the coast and find a piece of the beach that is just yours. Surprise him with a new sexy bikini, which shows more than it hides. Lace, a thong and hard nipples peeking from underneath a wet swimsuit will drive him crazy. You can also decide for the nudist version and dive in the waves completely naked. What goes on in the water, on the rocks or on the towels depends on your horniness. Instead of a beach you can take him to a meadow or an abandoned field, where you can prepare a sexy picnic for him. Let your body serve as a tray from which he is to eat fruit covered in whipped cream. In the end, your own “fruits” shall be the sweetest. Your nipples, navel, butt etc…

A hike in the mountains can also be a day-long dream foreplay. You do not believe it? Put on hot shorts or a skirt, which the wind will keep raising. Of course you will walk in front of him on purpose, and out of the blue you will surprise him, drag him to the edge of the forest, where you lean on a tree, bench or a deserted cabin and let him go at it.

Foreplay of His Dreams - Method 3: Stimulate Him in Public

This way you will make him want to return home on the double, because he just will not be able to take it. Stimulate him in the dressing room at the swimming pool and then in the pool, hidden from others but close enough so you could still get caught. Jacuzzis are perfect as well, since the bubbles conceal any goings-on beneath. You have to be careful in a sauna. You can play, if you are alone, but do not risk too much. Saunas are considered a place of R&R and privacy, not sex.

And another hint from the movies. Stimulating him in a full restaurant. Whisper to him, what you want to do with him and massage his member with your foot. Lick your lips and wear a low cut blouse. Do not wear a bra underneath. If you are sitting in a dark corner, you can go for a quite hot foreplay but beware, your dinner WILL be dangerously short.

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