Learn about Mistakes You Should Never Make
We present five major mistakes people make in love and dating. You don't want to repeat them, so read on.
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In today’s world of love and dating, there are some things we simply shouldn't do, but still do them. Let's take a look at the 5 biggest mistakes you can make, which you'd certainly like to avoid.
1. Mistakes in dating: Don't go to bed with your ex partner!
This is a very frequent, but very bad mistake. Going to bed with your ex boyfriend, husband, or lover means playing with fire because old feelings can easily come to the surface, even though you may not admit it to yourself. Great sex can often blind you and make you fantasise about an ideal relationship you could have with your ex partner.
2. Mistakes in dating: Never give away your nude photos!
Even though you may not be a fan of pornography, taking a photo of you in nothing but your skin can turn you on. If you do this, make sure that no-one else has access to these pictures. Even though nature wanted us to be naked, our society isn't ready to receive your pictures on the Internet positively. Your significant other wouldn't be thrilled if they received your naked photo in their inbox as a result of a little revenge of your ex.
3. Mistakes in dating: Don't fake an orgasm!
Even though you think this will please your partner, you won't do any good. Try to imagine what a shock to his ego it'd be if he found out that you were faking it. With each faked orgasm you're also convincing your body that this is all it can get and are thus making it harder to have real pleasure in bed.
4. Mistakes in dating: Don't send him or her any love notes or letters once it's over!
The word "end" wasn't made up for nothing! If you decided to end your relationship and move on, do it. By sending letters and notes to your ex, you're clinging to your memories and accomplishing nothing. You may also have to go through the pain again and you might have already gotten over it. You've suffered enough. Don't let yourself go through all that again.
5. Mistakes in dating: Delete your ex’s number from all of your phone books!
After throwing all the things from your previous relationship into the garbage, get rid of the phone number, even though this makes no sense at the time because you know it by heart. Erase any “messenger” contacts. Why is all this so important? If you broke up in a very emotional and difficult way, you'll find it hard to get over this love that wasn't meant to be. To many people, erasing contacts represents a big step in healing emotional wounds, especially if their feelings are strong even after the breakup. A single click or call can make it harder to get over a relationship and can prolong your suffering. Naturally, no-one said this was easy to do, but in the long run it's the most sensible thing to do.
You can find more advice on 
How to Date in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.
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