How to Tell Whether You Made Her Come?

16.04.2013 | By: S. M.

Learn how to recognize reliable signs of orgasm in women that will dispel your doubts whether you made her come.

Ask her to look you in the eyes when she comes and if she's truly experiencing an orgasm, her pupils will dilate during her reaching it. (PhotoXpress)

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According to various studies, 70% of women fake orgasm at least once in their lives. There are usually two reasons for that. The first one is that your partner knows she won't be able to reach an orgasm, but you try very hard to make her come which only prolongs intercourse. The other possibility is that she simply wants to spare you from disappointment.

If you think that orgasms can easily be faked, learn about the following signs that will tell you without doubt whether you made her come.

The head of the clitoris can tell you if you made her come

Yes, you read correctly. Before your lover reaches the heights of orgasm, the head of her clitoris retracts behind the surrounding skin. When this happens, it thus tells you you're on the right track and that you shouldn't stop. Besides, the retraction isn't only visible, you can also feel it, so you don't have to worry about dark rooms. Prior to orgasm, place yourself in a position that will allow you to rub her clitoris. You will thus be able to provide her additional pleasure, while at the same time you'll know for certain whether she really came.

Faster breathing and faster heart beat is a good sign that you made her come

Pay attention to the speed of her breathing and her heart beat. If they don't change even just before her "orgasm", it's highly probable that the climax is faked. The moment prior to an orgasm, the woman's heart rate significantly increases and her breathing becomes distinctly faster and deeper, while her body moves more spontaneously and with a different power, line and rhythm than most of the time during intercourse.

Dilated pupils

You might have some difficulties in recognizing this sign, but if lights are turned on, ask her to look you in the eyes when she comes (who could resist this romantic request?). If she's truly experiencing an orgasm, her pupils will dilate during her reaching it.

Red lips

Do you wonder which of her lips should you see redden? The answer is both, the lips on her face as well as the vaginal lips, the labia. They both slightly swell and become red during an orgasm. You'll certainly be able to observe at least one of them when she comes.

Vaginal muscle contractions

This is the most reliable indicator that you made her come, as it is almost impossible to fake. During an orgasm, a woman has 3 to 10 vaginal muscle contractions, where the first ten are the strongest. These contractions squeeze your penis in such a way that you can hardly ignore them!

Unusual sweating

When you feel that your sweetheart suddenly started to sweat, she's on her way to experience an orgasm. Her body becomes increasingly tense prior to reaching it and all her muscles work hard. When you both lie down sweating after climaxing, you can abandon all thoughts of your lover faking an orgasm.

If you find out that your partner is faking orgasms, you have to talk to her openly, be honest and show understanding.