How to Get Rid of Women's Sexual Fears?
Women are always worried. And these worries often affect our sexual lives. Read how to get rid of those fears!
Women often worry about their performance in bed. (Photoxpress)
We all know the saying: »Women are from Venus, men are from Mars.« And most agree with this saying. The thoughts that worry women rarely even occur to the stronger sex. Women are the masters at complicating things, analysing and we are often lost in our thoughts, while men simply solve the problem without thinking too much about it. And sexual intercourse is no different. Admit it ladies. You love worrying about a million (unimportant) things.
Let us do away with the five most burdening thoughts with short but effective pieces of advice!
Sexual fear #1: What if he does not like my body?
Men prefer fuller bodies than those anorexic girls from the covers of magazines! Media, magazines and television convince us that skinny is beautiful... Ask your boyfriend whether he prefers Kate Moss or the fuller Beyonce! Girls, your partner will be more bothered by the fact that you are not relaxed during sexual intercourse because of low self-confidence than by your less than perfect figure.
Sexual fear #2: Fear of getting pregnant
Fear of getting pregnant and catching sexually transmitted diseases is one of the most common female fears concerned with sex. The condom is 98% effective in preventing conception and becoming infected with sexually transmitted diseases. The condom must be put on right and after intercourse do not forget to check if it perhaps burst. If that happens, get a morning pill, which prevents unwanted pregnancies. Do not forget to get tested for 
sexually transmitted diseases as well.
Sexual fear #3: I am worried he will not want to put a condom on
It is true that men prefer not to have a condom on during intercourse. Women are often quiet before sexual intercourse, even though we are worried we might get pregnant or catch a sexually transmitted disease if he does not use a condom. So, dear ladies and girls, put yourselves first, no matter how strong the passion is and how much you wish to please your partners. You can suggest using a condom in a positive way: »Honey, I want to enjoy it, relax and not think about the possibility of getting pregnant, So I would like you to put it on.« If your partner still persists on going at it without a condom, it says a lot about his maturity and experience (or lack of it), and you can always refuse intercourse.
Sexual fear #4: I do not come during intercourse
The female orgasm is a great mystery. Some women reach an orgasm during intercourse, but many have never had an orgasm during penetration. Worrying is often to blame for not being relaxed in bed and this can never lead to an orgasm. Besides being relaxed, it is important to find out what turns you on with masturbation. During the intercourse ask your partner to stimulate your clitoris like you want. The best advice for an orgasm during penetration was given by dr. Boynton: »If you want to increase your chances of reaching an orgasm, sit on top of him.«
Sexual fear #5: Sexual intercourse should be amazing!
But it is not, right? Sexual intercourse is much more than just 'in and out' and if you are doing that, it cannot be all that good. If there is no kissing, hugging, slow and quick movements, touching, sighing and a lot of passion during intercourse, then it can't be really good. If your partner stops caressing you and being gentle after the first few minutes and starts moving his body about routinely, tell him or even better show him what you want. This will turn him on even more. Foreplay and intercourse are connected. If you put foreplay into the act of lovemaking itself, pleasure is guaranteed.
Read more about women's intimate worries in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.
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