How to Get Out of a Sexual Crisis?

All couples eventually go through a so-called sexual crisis. This usually means they lack ideas to spice up their sex life.

Almost every couple goes through a sexual crisis

Every couple goes through a sexual crisis eventually. This is a condition where there is no imagination and there are no ideas to spice up their sexual life. They try to find a solution in various books. In countless brochures, lexicons, guidebooks, and manuals for good sexual life. Some give this advice, some that, others something else, while some simply sum up what the previous ones said. These books are good for profit when couples who forget about their imagination and feelings. Many couples spend a fortune and buy all kinds of handbooks and manuals, which they study carefully.

Rely on your own feelings

Their sexual life becomes a book and just one more chapter in that book. It would be wrong to say that these handbooks do no good because you can find some naughty ideas with their help. But the problem occurs when the book starts leading us and we forget about spontaneity, our desires and feelings, which we managed to repress somehow. So, we become guided robots with no personality and real passion because from day to day we only follow chapters and advice given by others. We may not even like doing this, but we are made to believe that it is good and that it will help to spice up and save our boring sexual lives.

Books on sexuality seldom help

It seems that men who try to learn good lovemaking with books have even bigger problems with this. This means that they study all the positions, foreplay, extra tricks and all the other things an excellent lover is supposed to know, in detail. When this is done in a real situation, they forget about themselves and the woman and focus too much on the theory they learned and even make love according to a defined set of guidelines. This kind of intercourse will of course be bad, no matter how excellent and flawless it sounds on the covers of books. Just remember the Kama Sutra, where you have to be an acrobat to do all the things they advise. And just think how ridiculous and awkward the intercourse will look if the partners try to follow the advice of some particularly difficult chapter. He will feel pain in his back, she in her knees, for example, and the intercourse will not happen.

Save your sexual crisis by remembering your passion

So, discard the books and advice by others and remember your feelings and ideas, all those things which aroused you in the past, but you forgot about them. Remember your passion. Remember what turns your partner on. Surprise him in some other way. With new lingerie, with a romantic setting, by showing him you really want him. Let your heart and feelings guide you. Let your passion, which needs no books or paid advice, guide you. You do not have to know all the chapters of the Kama Sutra. It is enough to be spontaneous and give your partner some nice and gentle lovemaking, which s/he must surely miss a lot.

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