How to Convince Your Partner to Have Oral Sexual Intercourse?
Some people do not like to have oral sexual intercourse which can present a problem if the other partner adores it. So how to convince your partner that oral sexual intercourse can be a great experience?
A lot of fears surrounding oral sexual intercourse can be resolved with an honest conversation. (@PhotoXpress)
The reasons for rejection of oral sexual intercourse
When we perform oral sexual intercourse our face is right in front of our partner's genitals. Some feel aroused by this while others feel repulsed and even scared. The most common reason for unpleasant feeling is the 
smell and taste of the genitals, which can also repel a partner who otherwise adores oral sexual intercourse.
Some people do not want to perform oral sexual intercourse because they fear the partner will injure them with the teeth. Others are repelled by pubic hair which often end in the mouth and between the teeth. Some are also afraid of suffocation or humiliation, which can have its roots in an embarrassing experience from the past.
Another reason is that some people are afraid that they would not be good at performing oral sexual intercourse and the partner would not be pleased with them. They are also bothered if they think they have to perform it out of a duty and not for the sake of their own pleasure.
Increase the pleasure during oral sexual intercourse
Remember to take a shower before every oral sexual intercourse and rinse your genitals with soap and water. It is even better if you and your partner take a shower together and make a foreplay out of it. Calm your partner down and let him or her know that there is nothing to worry about. If you are both relaxed it will be easier to find an ideal formula for oral sexual intercourse that you will both enjoy.
Take a few deep breaths and try to be in a good mood, do not think about anything that could make you feel worse and think only of your partner's pleasure. You can ask your partner what he or she likes, either before or during oral sexual intercourse. Ask your partner if what you are doing is right and what exactly turns him or her on. Do the same when your roles are reversed and show your partner what feels good to you.
Of course no one has the right to pressure you into having oral sexual intercourse if you do not feel like it. Not your regular partner and let alone your one time lover. It is advisable, however, to try and conquer your fears. You should know that most of our fears are unfounded and the same goes for fears connected to oral sexual intercourse.
Read more about how to satisfy 
your woman or your man in our Lover's Guide.
