How To Be A Gentleman

Today’s sex advice will not be some technical information on how to craftily manoeuvre a woman’s body. In this article we provide advice on how to be gentleman, dear fellows. Your sex life could change for ever.

What does it mean to be a gentleman?

A gentleman is a man who is gentle (we will ignore the actual meaning of the word gentleman). If you carefully look at the previous sentence, you will find a minor piece of nonsense. A man is not gentle, at least not in a way that a woman is. Nowadays there are teenagers walking around and in some of the cases you cannot tell whether they are male or female. A man’s gentle side is something different. Male gentleness is power under control. A gentleman is a man who has control, who is filled with power and is the master of it. Most people associate a gentleman with a Victorian image of a tall Englishman in a suit with a cane who raises his hat for every woman that passes by. Behind this elegant exterior there is a fighter who cannot stand insults, who stands behind his principles and is always ready to fight. There is something fascinating about this image and believe me that women get weak at the knees next to a man like that. A gentleman is a true man. He makes an effort not to try and be a woman but to try and be a man. A gentleman does not drink, but tastes, does not smoke, but enjoys life. He puts just enough physical effort into his body to feel good in it. He always has a backbone and he does not feel fear. He knows that life is an empty nothingness and that it is a challenge trying to turn it into an art form, a unique journey into the emptiness and nothingness.

How to be a real gentleman for a day

So are you wondering how to be a real a gentleman, for example like Sean Connery? Rise in her presence. Do not scratch your butt, do not fart or yawn and complain. Exist in silence, focused with a charted direction in front of you. Take care of your personal hygiene, have a shave, cut your beard, pull the hairs out of your nose and ears, trim your fingernails, pluck that enormous eyebrow. Use a non invasive aroma, but one that is still masculine enough. Wash your teeth, use dental floss and mouth water. Do not walk around in your black socks, your yellow underwear. Go into the kitchen and prepare something you can do, something that she likes. Surprise her. Wake her up with a smell, a whisper, a small gesture of kindness. Let her do things her own way. Have breakfast together. Do not get angry if she does not finish what you have made. Throw it all in the bin and be happy about it. If she is in a bad mood in the morning, you best be on your way quickly. Let the change in routine come as a shock. Kiss her before you go.

If you want to be a real gentleman plan and predict everything

Pick the right moment, when she least expects it; flowers, a musical request on the radio, her favorite restaurant, a special table in a restaurant. Do not leave anything to chance. If the plan fails, do not panic, be calm and collected. If you want to be a gentleman then you should know that things fall into place if you have respect towards the universal order of things. What you have to strive for most of all is knowing what her wishes are, listening to her, not sticking to your plan rigidly but be willing to change it without being angry about it, without getting into a bad mood, being flexible. To be a  gentleman means to have no wishes. If the lady does not have any wishes, if she does not know what she wants, a gentleman immediately becomes decisive and knows where, when, how. He does not reproach, but enjoys his power instead. When something goes wrong, he just smiles because he knows the solution is just around the corner.

How to be a gentleman: Theory vs. practice

We all want something special, but perfection is not achieved by going somewhere or doing something in particular, but instead by feeling a certain way no matter where you are. If a woman senses that you know what you are doing and where you are, that you are listening to her and that she can rely on you, that her opinion matters and that you will be strong if she turns weak, then you are on good way to become a gentleman. Sexual intercourse will also be  different, because a woman who gives herself, makes love in a different way than a woman who is afraid. The woman who rebels, a woman warrior is another story. But for every woman warrior there is a man warrior; but do no be a barbarian but be a gentleman.

Read more about how to satisfy a woman sexually in our Lover's Guide.