How Are We Destroying Our Sexual Life?
What are the things that have the most destructive effect on your sexuality? Find out in the article...
When you whisper in his ear, don’t talk about ex boyfriends (Photoxpress)
Most of the time, we discuss what you can do to improve things. But we forget to mention precisely what you shouldn’t do. It’s true that we can figure this out just by thinking logically, but some things still have to be stressed.
Comparing to the ex partners can destroy your sex life
Comparing someone to someone else can only give you a headache. The comparisons can come out of conversations with friends, advice you hear here and there and your experiences with ex partners. The truth is very simple, despite various quiz shows and pieces of advice – each person is unique and understands sexuality in his/her own unique way. The only important person is your partner. Don’t try to compare your partner to your ex partners. Even if the comparisons are positive, don’t stir up that hornet’s nest. It is better to admire one another.
Your sex life can be destroyed if you reject your own body
Rejecting your own body is becoming more and more common. In the flood of apparently perfect bodies, many people reject their own bodies. They are ashamed of it and hide it. They do this during intercourse as well. Sexuality is a physical matter as well and if we deny our body, the sexuality can be questionable as well. The body is used as a tool which gives us pleasure. Rejecting our body during intercourse is like trying to hit a nail without a hammer.
Don't blindly follow the advice of experts
It is not a good idea to blindly follow general advice. The advice you may find in the media can be more informative and not something that should necessarily apply to you. You are the first and foremost expert when your sexuality is in question. Don’t lose the ability of common sense when you next come across some advice.
Fear can also destroy your sex life
Maybe it is education or maybe it is natural, but people are afraid of sexuality, especially the first time. The first time can be frightening also because it is something unknown. But we are also afraid of it when we get past that first hurdle. There are jitters with every 
new partner. Don’t let fear guide you in a relationship. It is better if you talk about it. Talking will help you trust one another more and the fear will also disappear as a consequence.
Intercourse is something special
Exaggeration is not good for anything. Sexual intercourse is something special, but let’s not go overboard. Exaggeration in this field can lead to frustration. Being too enamoured with sexuality is mostly totally inappropriate. Chocolate is good, but not every kind and not all the time. Sometimes chocolate is just chocolate.
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