Fondle your body as well!
Check why it’s important not to give up masturbation.
Masturbation greatly improves your sexual life. (jlp)
Reservations about your own body
Many people have reservations about their own body and they’re not even aware of it. Curiosity is nice and it helps us discover the undiscovered. The pleasant side of curiosity often ends when we talk about our own body. People have suppressed our curiosity for our own body. If there’s no real curiosity, there can’t be any real discoveries. Unfortunately, curiosity often becomes dirty when we’re trying to discover our own body. We can touch the skin, the arms, legs, head, even the crotch. But almost every exploration ends with the behind. The behind is only the focus of our attention when we wipe it after washing. Have you ever tried playing with your behind as well? Have you ever fondled it? Loving caresses of your own body open us to many possibilities. We become more susceptible to various caresses and moves. But most of all, our body is no longer a taboo. The fact that any part of our own body represents a taboo to us is absurd. Until we can get a good taste of our own body, a part of us is closed.
Hiding your own body from yourself is an indicator of how strongly some taboos are still embedded within us. (jlp)
Masturbation is only one way of touching
There’s been a lot of discussion about masturbation and getting to know your own body and how it responds. We know that the people who masturbate even occasionally aren’t few and far between anymore. But is occasional touching of the genitals enough to really get to love ourselves? Pure masturbation doesn’t mean discovering your own body. If you only go down with your finger and never check where you’re sticking the finger, it’s the same as if you were penetrating the vagina with the penis, but never feeling the whole terrain. Love yourself. If you feel reservations about your own body (or parts of the body), then your partners will feel this as well. Explore your crotch and behind .Sniff all the holes on the body. Why? To get rid of uncertainty. Resistance is often the consequence of fear and this most often stems from lack of knowledge.
Loving yourself and your own body is liberating. (jlp)
What do you gain from touching yourself?
By discovering all the secrets of your body, you’re really accepting it and becoming truly relaxed. Love yourselves because no one else is able to awaken that within you or get the things out of you that you haven’t discovered yourselves. You’ll never really believe that you’re sexy and worthy of sin, no matter if someone else tells you this ten times a day. And you can also become dependant on other people’s approval.
When we’re hiding our body in the dark, we’re also hiding our desires. (jlp)
Touch your body, your private parts. Don’t touch them so that you’ll be able to tell your partners how to touch you. Touch you body so that you know what feels good to you. Touch it in order to get rid of your resistance. If you feel resistance towards your private parts, you’ll never experience sexuality in all its beauty. You can, of course, have an orgasm, you may even have a nice time, but why should you settle for “only” nice if you can do better?
