Faking Orgasms Doesn't Pay Off

Have you ever wondered how many women have an orgasm every time they claim they came? Research suggests that almost every woman fakes an orgasm at least once in her life.

 

Faking orgasms will only make your sex life increasingly miserable. (jlp)

 
Have you ever considered the fact that faking orgasms means being insincere to your partner? It's almost as if you cheated on him ... Maybe I'm exaggerating, but still. Your faking may have negative consequences for your relationship and above all for you.

Why do women fake orgasms?

A good question. Every professional faker will most likely say that she does it to boost the guy’s morale and to avoid hurting him. Some find faking orgasms sexy, while others do it so their partners wouldn't think their efforts were wasted.

 

Show him what you like. Help him bring you pleasure. (jlp)

At the beginning, faking an orgasm can be extremely convincing. Men, just think how many times you doubted in your partner’s orgasm. What would you do if you discovered after a year that she had been lying to you? Faking an orgasm does nothing else in the long run than bring unhappiness and dissatisfaction to women. If you lie to your partner, he'll never be able to find out what makes you go weak at the knees. You don't give him a chance to work at it and improve the situation. Instead, you're pushing him in the wrong direction – when you convince him that what he's doing is incredible and that no one had ever done it so well.

Dear ladies, just like the mountain will never come to Muhammad, the orgasm will not come out of nowhere if you do nothing about it. For a start it will be enough if you tell your partner what really feels good to you. If you find it difficult to explain, you can also show him how you do that on your own – thus you will additionally arouse him and satisfy your needs better.

Don't expect an orgasm every time you have intercourse

 

Don't worry about whether you come or not. (jlp)


Doesn't he always expect it? Let him expect it. No problem. He can't take you to multiple orgasms each time, and there's nothing wrong with that. Just don't fake an orgasm!!! If you're afraid you'll disappoint him, tell him you had a nice time, but that you're a bit tired. Thus you can calm his feeling of guilt if you were basically unsatisfied in bed. At the right moment, you might also explain what you want him to do more and what less.

Give in to the pleasures in bed with your partner, focus on your feelings and don't worry about having an orgasm at all. Enjoy the sex itself and if you have an orgasm, so much the better.

You are the ones who control your own pleasure - your partner is there only to help you and allow you to have an unforgettable experience. If sometimes he isn't performing well, only hint at it, or try something different, new, and actively improve your intercourse - changes in sexual relationships are always welcome, but of course both partners have to be up for the challenge. 

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