Erogenous Zone: The Penis Frenulum

Learn more about the penis frenulum and the pleasures you can bring your lover by stimulating just one particular spot on his member.

Stimulate the penis frenulum with your tongue

If you are looking for a way how to orally satisfy your partner without direct fellatio, stimulating the penis frenulum seems just the right solution. Frenulum is a small fold of the tissue situated at the lower side of the head of the penis. It contains a myriad of neural synapses and can give a man a lot of pleasure when stimulated in a right way. First, arouse your partner by taking your tongue slowly and sensually along his entire body. You should take a little rest on his nipples, for these are an important erogenous zone for men, too. When you feel his member becoming ever more impatient, move lower and lower down his body with your mouth. If he liked the stimulation of his nipples, you can leave your fingers lying on them. When you find yourself face to face with his manhood, start to stimulate the frenulum. You should play with it without stopping for even a moment. You can make circular movements, or use a little more jerky pushing your tongue up and now. Thus you should make the same movements on the penis frenulum as your partner does during cunnilingus. The oral stimulation of his frenulum and the simultaneous stimulation of his nipples with your fingers will doubtlessly make a win-win combination that will end with a fantastic orgasm.

If the tongue gets tired

There is also an elegant solution for the more tired of tongues. Although this kind of oral stimulation seems to be very handy, as you practically avoid all the troubles that come with fellatio, the problem might be that you must do everything with your tongue. Almost exclusively. If your tongue becomes exhausted, just roll your tongue over your upper teeth so you touch your upper lip with it. Try to stimulate your partner with the lower part of your tongue by simply shaking your head (as though you were indicating refusal), while the tongue actually rests. This stimulation will be very agreeable also because there is a gentle crest on the lower end of the tongue which will make the pleasure even greater.

Regulate the intensity of the stimulation

The sensitivity of the penis frenulum varies from man to man and from day to day and also depends on the degree of arousal, which means you should pay attention to what level of intensity of stimulation suits your lover. If his frenulum appears to be a bit more sensitive at that moment, your tongue should be relaxed and soft while you are licking it. On the other hand, if he shows excitement at intense stimulation, you should form a point with the tip of your tongue.

Sensuous massage of the penis frenulum

You can also stimulate the penis frenulum with your hand or your fingers. Don't forget to use a lube or baby oil, which will make massage more pleasant. Don't do the massage with dry fingers. After you have oiled your hands, take his penis in one of them, so that your thumb lies on his frenulum. Imagine you are holding a joystick and pushing a button. The most comfortable position will be the one where you're sitting between your partner's legs and you are facing his member directly. Start to gently circle with the thumb placed on the penis frenulum. Your other (oiled) hand can play with the testicles. If you want, you can also treat the latter to your tongue.

You can also tackle your partner's frenulum with your hands, not just fingers. Place your left hand behind his penis to support his member, and cover the whole length of his penis with your right hand. The back of your left hand is turned towards your lover and the back of your right hand towards you. You should do this in the above-mentioned position. When your hands are placed properly, you can start to give your partner a sensuous massage. The left hand should stay in place, as its only function is to support the penis, while you travel with your right hand up and down, applying the pressure on the frenulum. You will fill your lover's heart with joy.

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