Can Women Enjoy Performing Fellatio?

Women usually don’t have any problems performing fellatio. A real challenge for women is how to enjoy it. Here are a few simple guidelines on how to make fellatio a pleasant experience.

Performing fellatio can be a pleasant change of activities during sexual intercourse but only if both partners enjoy it. And a requirement for that is desire. You shouldn’t have oral sex if you don’t want to. Sadly, women worry too much about how they’ll perform fellatio and this prevents them from having a good time. Pleasure and relaxation are undoubtedly the most important elements of really great oral sex. 

Which technique is the best?

The majority of women try to find the answer to this question because they are convinced that a truly great technique will help them perform an unforgettable fellatio. But the biggest secret is that the ultimate technique doesn’t exist. And this goes for oral or any other type of sex. Of course some level of proficiency is necessary and useful. The more you are familiar with different techniques the better, and performing fellatio can become extremely interesting. Never decide for only one technique and you shouldn’t forget to kiss, suck and use your hands in all techniques you decide to use. You mustn’t perform fellatio with a dry mouth so we advise you to have a drink ready. Relax your jaw so that you won’t use your teeth! If you are not confident enough you can “protect” the penis with your lips.

The right approach is important

Enjoy what you’re doing. Be relaxed and playful. A woman who is tense and nervous is unattractive and since she is holding his possession in her hands she can be terrifying to a man. The situation is even worse when a woman is bored. So don’t do it unless you are completely focused. A man could get the impression that he is forcing you to perform fellatio. Even though he can still have an orgasm he won’t truly enjoy it. But pleasure is the purpose of sex, isn’t it? Performing fellatio isn’t a task you tick off. Nonetheless you have to know that inappropriate approach is usually a consequence of low self-esteem and fear that you are not good enough.

Appearance is important

Appearance is important. Men are pretty much visual beings and seeing an attractive woman can stimulate them even more, making your “job” easier. Great visual effects can be achieved by looking him seductively straight into his eyes while you are performing fellatio. Men like to watch women performing fellatio and they love it if you watch them back. By looking at him you strengthen the bond between you and your man. Don’t feel embarrassed. Your man will love it. And by doing so you will tell him you enjoy performing fellatio and that it isn’t difficult for you. This will dispel any doubts about your inclination to perform fellatio. And a smile from time to time is always welcomed. If he sees love and passion in your eyes, your pleasures will be more intense and genuine.

Meet Mr. Penis!

The reason why some women are embarrassed to perform fellatio is their lack of knowledge in anatomy of penis, so don’t be shy and study it. You can look up the information in the literature. It is especially good to know which are the most sensitive places and why, because this is what you have to focus on while performing fellatio. Another way is to ask your partner. He will be the best source of information. You can observe him while he is masturbating. Or you can learn from your mistakes. Nothing is wrong with that.

To swallow or not to swallow?

A lot of men and women believe that swallowing sperm during fellatio is of key importance for good oral satisfaction. We believe it is a rather personal decision. Men supposedly like it but this doesn’t mean that you have to do it. If you want to swallow sperm, but dislike the idea of having sperm in your mouth, allow the penis to go as far down your mouth as possible. And don’t forget to have your throat wide open. You will survive the “ordeal” without worrying what to do with sperm.