Bring Out the Tigress in Her!

Bring out the tigress that charmed you when you first met in her again!

Bring out the tigress in her #1: Forget the routine!

It happens to many people without even realizing it before it is too late. The daily routine at work and at home can soon lead us into a life without sex. And that is not the worst of it. It is terrible when you start to fall apart and arguing becomes your substitute for sex. This situation is wrong and should be fixed.

Arguing can be a result of missing sex life and if that is the case we do not recommend you to talk about it. Conversation could easily complicate matters further and you may end up fighting even more. And the wall between you will become even higher. Talking should come on the agenda later, when the negative energies have calmed down. First, you have to get to work.

If she is sitting at the computer late in the evening, or if she is tired from doing household chores or from her day at the office, do not be the one to make it worse with your gloomy, unsatisfied face. Do not drag her away from her chores because she will most likely resist and you might start arguing again. Instead of dragging her, lure her away.

Bring out the tigress in her #2: Relax her with a massage

Start massaging her. If she is sitting at the computer, sit in a chair behind her. Press your body against hers. Let her feel your warmth and support. Massage her neck and go on to the whole back, without any words or expectations. It might be best for the massage to last longer, so that she truly relaxes. If you continue to the next phase immediately, she may turn you down soon. It is vital to choose the right time for the next step. Massaging her scalp can help relax her body. It can also help to do away with her inhibitions and the reasons why she does not want to do it now. Gently put your hands in her hair. When you see that she has taken her eyes off her work for a moment, it is time to kiss her gently. Again, without pressure or expectations.

Bring out the tigress in her #3: Start gently, not by force

Your kiss should not show any desire for sex, but it should be a kiss which shows the desire for intimacy that you have lost.

The kisses should not come pouring out as if you were a hermit who found water in the desert. Lead her on, take your time. Do not regret spending some more time on this.
When you kiss her, caress her body. Touch her breasts. Start massaging them as well. Whisper how you miss her, her smell, her skin...

Bring out the tigress in her #4: Do it with lots of feeling and sensuality

After the massage and some gentle kisses and caresses she will probably be more ready and willing for future suggestions than before. If she is at the computer, you can use this environment, not to start sex, but to do it a bit differently. No matter what the situation, seduce her. You are not on a bed, so you can do things differently. She can sit in your lap, while leaning forward on the table. You can put her on the table, or she can sit on your lap facing you. There are countless options, you just have to get started.

The most important thing to remember is not to stop trying and not to give up hope too easily. If you cannot get her relaxed in the privacy of your home, consider the option of taking her on a short holiday. Sometimes the change of environment works wonders.

If you need more advice on successful relationships read our Lover's Guide.