5 Myths about Sex that Many Men Think Are True
Gentlemen, forget about all the cock-and-bull stories and myths about sex. Just to remind you, here are five of the most common ones.
One of the myths about sex men believe to be true is that women need to experience an orgasm for the sex to be good. (jlp)
The 1st of the myths about sex men believe to be true: The quality of sex depends on her having an orgasm
When it comes to sex, men and women differ in one crucial thing. The “male biology” lets men think the orgasm is the only good way to end a sex session. And men also find it hard to believe that you can also have good sex without an orgasm. Here’s where women think differently. A woman can have a wonderful time even if the sex session ends only with her partner’s orgasm. This means that the myth about women rating sex just on the grounds of their orgasm isn’t true. If she doesn’t come, some men will falsely think that the sex was bad, but this is most often not the case. Some women are incapable of experiencing an orgasm and still enjoy sex as it is. When they try to explain this to their partner, the guys think that their ladies are just being nice. This doesn’t mean that it’s ok to be indifferent about her orgasm. Just stress out less and pay attention to what brings her pleasure.
The 2nd of the myths about sex men believe to be true: The longer the sex, the better
Many men will rate a sex session according to its length. They’ll try to break all records and keep on going till they think they’re completely done for. This kind of thinking can lead to frustrations and disappointment if they’re not able to keep going as long as they predicted. Well, the length of a sex session doesn't equal the quality of sex in practice. A sex marathon often only causes a lot of pain in particular areas of the body and costs a lot of time that could’ve been spent for other things. This doesn’t mean that you should keep it shorter than 5 minutes. Sex should be a wonderful experience for both partners and not a tiring rumble. It should be a spontaneous and beautiful thing. Focus on fun rather than time.
Men often try to make the sex session too long. Change that and focus on pleasure instead. (jlp)
The 3rd of the myths about sex men believe to be true: Women hate watching porn
Oh, how wrong you are! Women like to watch porn a lot and they love to be aroused by steamy hot images. The reasons why some women don’t like to watch porn lie somewhere else. Gentlemen, you’ll just have to face it that women are as horny as you, but they just show it in a different way.
The 4th of the myths about sex men believe to be true: Sex has to be like they do it in porn movies
Although women don’t always expect a gentle sex session and might sometimes want it rough, you really don’t have to treat your partner like a porn actress in bed. Almost all porn movies are usually made the same way. The standard porn movie sex scene looks like this: 1) oral sex, 2) vaginal sex, 3) anal sex and 4) the money shot. Your sex session really doesn't have to resemble a porn movie sex scene.
Women like to watch porn too. (jlp)
The 5th of the myths about sex men believe to be true: A healthy sex life is determined by how often you have sex
Many men will start to panic if they don’t have sex that often anymore after the burning passion of the first few months of a new relationship simmer down. They’re burdened by not having sex as often as before and by the belief that they should be having sex more frequently. This particular state of mind is caused by pop culture and all the different media, who tell us how often we’re supposed to have sex to keep our sex life healthy. Well, that’s a load of nonsense. The fact is that there is no “right amount” of sex and the best thing to do is to have sex as much as we like it and whenever we like it. The need for sex differs from person to person. There’s nothing wrong with having sex three times a week, and there’s also nothing wrong with having sex once a week. It's often the case that two partners are sexually incompatible in this particular department, but each and every couple decide for themselves how much sex will make them happy. You know the saying: It’s the quality that counts!
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