3 Biggest Mistakes Women Make When Trying to Satisfy Men
This article is especially intended for those women who don't excel at oral intercourse and giving a handjob. Let's learn some indispensable basics that will make you sure about how to satisfy men!
Before you tackle your partner's member, talk about it in superlatives. (jlp)
1. Men are visual creatures.
Men are usually much more susceptible to visual stimuli than women. A woman should always think of that before the beginning of intercourse and use this knowledge to her advantage. Her appearance is her main weapon, which she can easily use to seduce and arouse a man. Posing in seductive and daring positions and behaving enticingly can be a powerful way to stimulate your lover's sexual desire. You can always dress sexy or accentuate your taking off your underwear.
Another piece of advice that will be of great help when you try to satisfy men: if you verbally express your feelings and if you show admiration for your lover's body or what he's doing, you'll have him eating out of your hand. This is especially true when it comes to your relationship to his penis. You have to show your lover you greatly appreciate his sexual organ. Men love to hear it. Some of them are extremely sensitive about the size of their member, which they equate with their ability to satisfy you.
Men are not into women's caressing their whole bodies and soon feel the wish for their partner to turn her attention to their penis. The woman usually knows by experience how to turn on her man. If she lacks experience, she also doesn't face a difficult task, because an experienced and self-confident man will be happy to show her what he likes. Moreover, men appreciate passion and dedication, and don't look for any special techniques. It's actually quite easy to satisfy men. Read on.
Men's hygiene is of course a must when it comes to oral sexual games. (jlp)
2. Men love determination and decisiveness, but don't like roughness!
A typical mistake made by an inexperienced woman is their grabbing the penis with the whole hand and pulling at it roughly, perhaps with a very dry skin of their hands, which most men find nothing short of appalling. It's much better if the woman places her toe on one side of the penis, while she puts her other fingers on the other side of it, and then starts to gently move the foreskin up and down, distinctively creating a rhythm. She should start with a slow pace and then go on faster and faster. It's recommendable to use a bit of saliva, which can be simply spit on to the penis.
After the initial phase of stimulating the penis, the woman can sit so that she faces the man, stimulating his penis with her both hands. Her breasts should be bare, which will make her partner all the more aroused. She can use one hand to hold the root of the penis and simultaneously gently caress the testicles, while she can use her other hand to stimulate the extremely sensitive head of the penis. In this way, she can cause her partner to experience various and very intense feelings.
If the woman is turning the penis between both of her hands, she can additionally arouse her partner by rubbing his member also against her breasts. If this activity serves as foreplay and an introduction into penetration, she has to take care that the man doesn't ejaculate too soon. If he tells her to stop, she should take him seriously, but it's also true that long-term partners usually know each other well enough to be able to predict when one of them is nearing an orgasm.
Every woman can learn to prevent the ejaculation of her man. When she notices that her partner is about to come, she should use her fingers to squeeze the penis with some strength right at its root or right below the testes.
When trying to satisfy men, don't forget to massage their penis with both of your hands. (jlp)
3. Men love oral intercourse.
You should see oral intercourse as an expression of love and not as something you have to do. Of course the preliminary condition should be your partner's smelling good and being clean. The best way to start the whole game is to begin kissing the head of the penis. You should lick the lower side of the stem several times and then start imitating penetration, where it is advisable to press your lips and be careful not to touch the penis with your teeth. The purpose of fellatio can be foreplay and getting ready for intercourse, but of course you can also bring your lover to an orgasm, which can end on your breasts, on your face or in your mouth, if you only want that to happen. Some women spit the sperm out, while others swallow it with pleasure and show their lovers that they feel totally dedicated to them.
