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Written on: 12. May 2010 10:01
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Horus
registered since: 06.04.2010
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That sure is a lot of info. I wish you'd write those examples :/ Oh well  I read somewhere that many couples who engage in BDSM actually write out "contracts" stating that it's all consensual. I guess it's a good precaution even if you've been together for quite a while, just in case. You never know in this day and age what might happen. Btw, do you have any examples of a woman abusing a man's body while worshiping him at the same time? I know you wrote you're the dominant one but still? |
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Written on: 12. May 2010 15:27
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William
registered since: 19.04.2010
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Generally, BDSM is very similar for the people no matter their gender-identity. Bondage, sadism and many forms of non-sexual torture are the same. The prime differences, in my opinion are: 1) Cock Ball Torture (CBT is the jargon in the trade) is very different from pussy punishment. Some are similar like wax play, genital spanking, and others are different like squeezing, ball busting. 2) Men tend to be stronger than women so if the woman is the dom, he must submit more as a slave with little or no struggling/fighting 3) Women doms tend to use humiliation more 4) Men are far more likely to pay for a female dom's services than women are to pay men. 5) Gay domination is very different from lesbian, too. It is far easier for gay men to find a gay dom than a female dom. A dom certainly can "worship" a man's body while torturing him. For example, a woman might crave cock and love to swallow cum but torture her male by delaying his ejaculation or racking his balls until he cannot help but explode. Women dom's may love to be fucked but want her male to "pay" for the pleasure by self-immolation. On the other hand, the dom may hate his/her slave. I'd suggest staying away from them. They can be socio-paths and they can do permanent physical and emotional harm. In my world of BDSM, that is the exact opposite of the point of BDSM. In my world, I love even crave a woman's body and want to take her to extremes of pleasure, sometimes with or via pain and humiliation. But always with respect and even love. But...the main point is to find someone to serve. If you are new, then starting slowly is probably a good idea. Women need to find someone they can trust (some men are truly nuts and should be avoided at all costs). [This article was edited 1 times, at last 12.05.2010 at 16:43.] |
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Written on: 12. May 2010 16:50
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lollypop
registered since: 08.03.2010
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William, why do I get the feeling that you could write some awesome erotic stories with BDSM being the main topic, without even including any of your real life experiences? I think I have to find myself a serious guy and fast. Or stop reading your posts on this stuff. Either way ^^ |
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Written on: 12. May 2010 17:04
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William
registered since: 19.04.2010
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Lollypop, Yes, I do write erotic stories. Mostly based on things I actually do with women but some stories are more extreme than I'd be willing to do in real life. If you'd care to swap stories, write to wwww7777gmail[dot]com You sound like an incredible "catch" so I do hope you find a serious guy, as you put it. Even if you are a sub, don't be passive waiting for the right guy. Go get him! There are so many parts of having a fulfilling life. One is sexual. But waiting for the right guy a mistake many women make (right up there with sticking with the wrong guy). Good luck! [This article was edited 1 times, at last 12.05.2010 at 17:06.] |
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Written on: 13. May 2010 09:55
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Horus
registered since: 06.04.2010
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I gotta show this topic to my gf xD Anyway, William, they do have an option to post your own stories on here. There even was a news post about a best-erotic-blog challenge. http://www.intimatemedicine.com/entertainment/become-an-erotic-blogger-a-literary-challenge-to-all-visitors/ So far I'm the only one participating 
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Written on: 13. May 2010 14:56
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William
registered since: 19.04.2010
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Better than showing her the forum, tell her what you want to do/with her. If she's not sure, try something that nearly all women like: tying her up. Good luck. Let us know how it goes. |
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Written on: 13. May 2010 17:34
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William
registered since: 19.04.2010
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Intimate medicine has an okay article on beginner bondage at: http://www.intimatemedicine.com/sex-advice/a-beginners-guide-to-bondage-part-1/ |
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Written on: 14. May 2010 11:03
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lollypop
registered since: 08.03.2010
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I read that article I just hope part two pops up soon enough (or have I missed it?). I don't really write anything, I prefer to just daydream about it all and let it play out that way. I tried writing but then I just started overthinking everything and it didn't end well. And as you know, I am working on getting the (hopefully) right guy. I just hope he feels the same. How far into your relationship did you start with BDSM? I imagine at least a couple of years had to pass? |
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Written on: 14. May 2010 15:15
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William
registered since: 19.04.2010
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Lollypop, BDSM might be the start of the relationship or never happen. Both of you have to want it. With your new boyfriend, it's my guess that it could be a while since he's a virgin. But for experienced couples that both want it, it could be the first date. William wwww7777gmail[dot]com |
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Written on: 14. May 2010 15:34
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Horus
registered since: 06.04.2010
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But it could freak a girl out if you mention to her that you're into this kind of things too early on. Perhaps start with some fluffy handcuffs =] I may be thinking too much but say you tell your GF that you'd like to do some of what you mentioned, but she isn't into it. So now she's left with 2 choices. Either do something she doesn't like just to please me or have the feeling that she's denying me something that I'd really like. Ok, IRL that's the kind of reasoning my head would do if the roles were reserved. Hummm, advice? Please? (Yes, I know, less thinking, more luvin' ) But seriously...
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