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Written on: 15. Sep 2010 12:34
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IMeditors
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registered since: 13.09.2010
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Sheena writes:
sheena >
Hello..I just want have big concern to my best friend. It seems like she is very hyperactive person about sex..she can have sex with a different man in 1 week she got 2, and if this 2 men will leave her she can find another too easy to get her out of madness by sex..is this normal of a woman to have sex with a different man without love? i mean i am the opposite friend of her that I prepare a traditional way of making love, like with passion and respect. but on her, she looks like enjoying it but what is my concern is..most of the guys she meet they never came back to her to ask a serious proposal and it always turns out that she cried at the end. and then, she would depressed and sad if those guys never had a plan on her in the future...i feel worried and sad for her..cause she keep saying to me that..at lest i have my wonderful with with a good boyfriend...but she does not have a boyfriend at all..she just want to have sex only...
Hope you can help me so, i can help my friend of what is the best remedy on this kind of problem.
Thanks for your time to read my simple letter.
From the Philippines-
Sheena 
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Written on: 16. Sep 2010 11:55
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lollypop
registered since: 08.03.2010
Posts: 63
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Hello Sheena!
It seems to me that your friend must have some serious problems. Does she go and sleep with guys when something is bothering her? If so, it can be a way for her to forget about her real problems and focusing on something completely different. Like with overeating, for example, when you have emotional issues that you solve with food.
Did you try to help her? And in what ways?
Tell us more, so we can help you.
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Written on: 16. Sep 2010 15:01
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michel
registered since: 19.07.2010
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Sheena, if your friend only wants to have sex with different men with no real obligations and if she's really enjoying it, maybe she's a nymphomaniac?
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Written on: 29. Sep 2010 12:13
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sheena
registered since: 12.09.2010
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Hello Guys,
Thank you Lollypop and Michel for the advise and notes here. Yeah, I help her a lot and i treat her like my sister we became close and she even open all to me about what bothering her when she miss to have sex in a week. I did to search of this kind of personality online and saw something similar that Michel said. I think she has this kind of sickness and I even told her that she need to go and talk a Professional Pychologist not me. But as a friend I always advise and warned her future what lice ahead. she seems not concern about of what you said Lollypop..she seems like, she doesn't care of how many men she sleep with as long as she can be able to perform in bed and release her tension. I noticed that when she is sad and depress and stress at work, she tends to craving to have sex and I recommend her to eat some chocolate, I don't know if chocolate can help to lower down her hormones or urge. She cannot sleep well if she cannot release her tension to have sex with someone.what makes me worry was..she may get in trouble to get sick in this situation.but seems like she does not care about. I give all a good advised on her and everything what is good for her, but yet i found useless cause she listen now but she will do it again and again later. mmmm..i feel sad..please need your help.. It looks like no man will get into serious on her ways. Can you advise me what should i do on her?...
Concern Friend.
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Written on: 6. Oct 2010 21:06
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lollypop
registered since: 08.03.2010
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It is really hard to give advice to somenone who isn't prepared to take any action, as your friend.
You haven't mentioned if she's using any protection.
So or the time being, maybe you can at least advise her to always use protection,if you can't stop her from doing what she's doing.
By protection I mean condoms, because they protect from sexually transmitted diseases. Or if the guy she's with doesn't want to use them, she can use a diaphragm.
Maybe you can also get her to doctor for a test of sexually transmitted diseases. It may help her to sober up and see that what's she's doing isn't only fun, but it can leave serious consequences on her health and her future.
Do you think it might help?
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Written on: 8. Oct 2010 16:33
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michel
registered since: 19.07.2010
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Hello Sheena,
I was wondering if she ever had a boyfriend before? Has she always acted in this way or she only started to act like this recently?
Perhaps one of her previous boyfriends left her very disappointed and now she doesn't want to get hurt again....
How old is she, if I may ask? It would help a lot to know.
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