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Written on: 14. Mar 2010 13:25
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lollypop
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registered since: 08.03.2010
Posts: 63
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Do you think it is a good idea to have a sexual relationship with a married man? I would of course like it better if he weren't married, but I love him. I don't want to do this to his wife, but I think it's his problem is he is unfaithful to her - I don't feel guilty. Should I?
I hope he will divorce eventually and be mine (their kid is already a grown-up).
Do you have any similar experiences? I would appreciate any comment! thanks
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Written on: 15. Mar 2010 16:04
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johnnieboy
registered since: 12.03.2010
Posts: 2
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I don't think an affair is a "good idea" for anyone involved Everyone deserves somebody who is always there for them. If you really love the man, you don't wanna share him with anyone, right? Besides, he is not fair to his wife. You can't trust cheaters. If I were you, I would let him go. If he loved you, he would leave his wife. And if he loved her, he wouldn't be having an affair. It's as simple as that.
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Written on: 18. Mar 2010 11:47
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Jasmine
registered since: 10.03.2010
Posts: 3
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Hey, lollypop!
You don't mess with married guys unless you want only SEX, as they (usually) DON'T leave their wives. So if you love him, realize this as soon as possible and MOVE ON. If you want something serious, he's the wrong guy. Why? Because he's married, that's why! There are millions of other men out there!
Take care!
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Written on: 20. Mar 2010 11:03
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lollypop
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registered since: 08.03.2010
Posts: 63
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Thanks, but that didn't exactly help. I hoped that someone with a similar experience would show up. Has nobody ever been in bed with someone married and basically unavailable, and in love with them?
I think he doesn't love his wife - he wouldn't love her even if I weren't here.
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Written on: 21. Mar 2010 08:15
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Orgasmicblonde
registered since: 21.03.2010
Posts: 1
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Dear lollypop, I've been in the same situation some time ago. I don't regret it, because I had terrific time with that person (we aren't together anymore). We were both married at the time and we both felt a bit sad about the complicatedness of it all and a mix of feelings, it was a very difficult decision to make to leave our partners and move in together, not because we wouldn't be sure that we've got some great and serious thing going on, but because we did care about our spouses. You should give more details for us to give helpful advice. All I can say is if you're happy, girl, go with it! Don't let taboos hold you down. If you suffer, on the other hand, you know what to do. If you get along great and if you know your life is much better with this married man then without him, there's no reason for you to worry. That is unless you're deeply sad because he's officially a someone else's man, as I've already said. In my opinion, it all depends on that. And no, you don't need to feel guilty for his cheating on his wife. Come on!
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Written on: 29. Mar 2010 14:34
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supersonic
registered since: 20.03.2010
Posts: 4
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Hello!
I can't imagine being in love with someone and sleeping with them but knowing that at the end of the day they return to someone else. Isn't this called masochism?
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Written on: 31. Mar 2010 12:35
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lollypop
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registered since: 08.03.2010
Posts: 63
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Supersonic, it's called masochism, yes ... It's not going to be masochism any longer, because yesterday he told me it's over. I thought he really loved me, like I love him, but he was only fooling around, playing with me feelings. I mean - I never could have guessed! but obivously ... He was so gentle, we had such great time together! how could he do such a thing to us? Didn't he enjoy it like I did? I hurts a LOT. ...
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Written on: 2. Apr 2010 19:23
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lollypop
Topic creator
registered since: 08.03.2010
Posts: 63
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I just want to say that I advise everyone to keep away from married men. I was sure my "fling" felt something for me and yet I was wrong. I'm sticking to available men from now on.
I still fight the wish to contact his wife and tell her about our affair. That would be a little revenge besides, I would do something good for his wife in this way. I know ignorance is a bliss, but maybe she'll find out sooner or later. And better sooner than later. What do you say?
He'll hate me for it, but I don't want any positive feelings for me from his side anymore.
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Written on: 3. Apr 2010 23:35
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Josh
registered since: 25.03.2010
Posts: 3
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heh, obviously you've answered your own question. not many people can do that
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Written on: 6. Apr 2010 13:53
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KylieS.
registered since: 01.04.2010
Posts: 2
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lollypop, I hope you don't mind, but I'm curious: what reasons did he give for jilting you? did he mention bad conscience? I mean did he decide he has to faithful to his wife from now on?
thank for sharing this!
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