How to choose the right bed?

The most important part of furniture in your bedroom is, of course, the bed. So, how do you choose the right bed?

Join us on Facebook!

Your bed isn’t just the place where you sleep

It’s quite interesting that most beds are still designed only for a goodnight’s sleep. As if manufacturers never considered that people actually have sex in their beds. The main problem lies in the fact that for most versions of sexual intercourse the perfect bed base has to be hard compared to a bed strictly used to relax and have a restful sleep. One of the solutions is to have two beds –one for sex and one for sleeping, but you have to bear in mind that the bed you have sex on will sooner or later fall apart. Though this solution is funny, it unfortunately isn’t practical for most people. There’s often not enough money to buy an additional bed or enough room in the flat. So, you can compromise and rearrange the bed before you have sex, which may slightly reduce your spontaneity. It’s true that gigantic, oval beds look very tempting, but they don’t  really have the right sexual value. In sexual intercourse, people use the whole bed, including its frame, so the mattress has to be just right height. If the top of the frame is at exactly the same level as your husband’s pubic bone, you’ll be in the right position whether you lean on or over the frame of your bed. If you like to play prison games or the game of domination, and want to be tied up, you need a high and strong bed frame to hold your arms during your sex games.

Your mattress should be sufficiently hard

A bed with an old and massive frame has many advantages and it doesn’t break so easily. It also doesn’t creak and squeak. A mattress has to be as hard as you and your partner need it to sleep well. Otherwise, you may be deprived of your sexual enjoyment. The right bed makes it easier to live and sleep together and have sex whenever you feel like it. If there’s enough room in your bedroom, get an extra single bed just in case one of you falls ill and needs restful sleep that a double bed can’t provide because you feel every move your partner makes during the night. Along with the bed, you’ll need four pillows. Two pillows should be made of hard material and used as a pad underneath the buttocks during sexual intercourse and two pillows should be made of soft material and intended for sleep. You have to maintain the same temperature in your bedroom throughout the year. It has to be warm enough, so you don’t feel cold or need another blanket when you want to sleep naked. If you can’t afford to spend a lot of money on an extra bed, you can buy an armchair. Armchairs can make your sex life more exciting if you’re creative enough. From there you can take the action to your bed and afterwards to the floor if you have a nice soft rug to make it more comfortable. It’s also very exciting to have sex in a bed surrounded by mirrors because it’s very arousing to watch yourself during sexual intercourse. A well furnished bedroom can be a real sex gym, a real erotic fitness studio where those with less funds and a little bit of creativity can also have lots of fun.

Water bed

A water bed was a big hit a few years ago and the demand has been increasing ever since. You can experience very unusual feelings on a water bed, some sort of sexual resonance that dictates its own rhythm, which means that the lovers have to move together with the bed. This isn’t a hindrance, but more like a stimulant. Unfortunately, water beds are much more expensive than normal beds.

Read more about sex and sexuality in our Lover's Guide.