What Does Turn Men Off?
Ladies, I'm sure you master different techniques of seduction. But do learn about things you SHOULDN'T do because they turn men off.
Avoid calling his penis funny names. (jlp)
Endearing names for his penis
We want to draw your attention to those nicknames for his penis that you should avoid, nicknames that you maybe find endearing and sexy, but which still turn men off. Although some expressions that you use to point to his penis seem only naughty, playful or perverse, some others are in bad taste. You won't arouse him by calling his penis "little Elvis," "piss pump," "choo-choo," "pee-wee" or similarly childish and funny expressions. Your partner may feel offended and you'll easily hurt his ego. You may also consider avoiding any too medical and neutral terms for his manhood. Expressions such as "member", "penis", or, god forbid, "sexual organ", will definitely leave him cold.
Sadistic sex games aren't everyone's cup of tea. (jlp)
Surprises that turn into pain
You may be open-spirited and your partner may be open-spirited too, but this is no reason to surprise him with 
sadistic sex games. Do you know for certain that you won't turn him off or even scare him? If he never explicitly told you that he finds a little bit of pain sexy, say no to such experimenting. Biting him, scratching him with your nails, tying him up with a rope, whipping him, or even hitting him may turn out to be a serious mistake. Never surprise him with pain, as this may leave imprints on his psyche. Next time, he may be too afraid to go to bed with you.
Seduce him with sexy lingerie and self-confidence.(jlp)
Lack of sex appeal
Sex appeal? This may sound obvious and self-evident, but in fact that's far from the truth. Many a woman, especially if she's in a long-term relationship, in which she feels at ease and comfortable, forgets about seductive approaches, sexy clothing that reveals more than it conceals, and the effort to look attractive. Ladies, don't take for granted that your man likes you anyway and that the days when you had to try hard to make him notice you and turn him on are long gone. Don't give in to indifference and asexuality. Even though he likes you for who you are and loves you for your personality, this isn't an excuse for your looking untidy and neglecting your appearance.
Make sure to wear some sexy lingerie, to have smooth, depilated legs, and to have a nice looking hair cut. Most of all, don't forget about gentle touches, trying out new sex games and the time that you devote to him only. A sexually attractive woman who doesn't make any effort to satisfy her lover isn't such a turn-on after all. Don't forget to see your partner also as your lover, although you may be together for twenty years. Dress up, make yourself look incredible, and then surprise him with a foreplay he won't be able to forget. Conjure up magic every time you make love.
