How to give an erotic massage?

Start an evening with an erotic massage and prepare your partner for amazing and sensual sex.

First, you have to make thorough preparations

 
Although giving an erotic massage sounds rather easy and spontaneous – and it is with some practice –, there are certain rules that you have to follow before you begin giving a massage in order to make it as pleasant and comfortable as possible for both of you. So, let us look the rules:

1. If you are living in an apartment together with your parents or friends, first make sure that   nobody disturbs you – therefore, lock the door and switch off the telephones.

2. Do it slowly. A good massage is a long massage. Therefore, take enough time for yourselves and do not make any later arrangements that will press you for time.

3. Provide for a romantic atmosphere. It sounds corny, but candles, a warm place and nice music are not a bad idea. Warm up your hands before a massage.

4. Make sure everything is clean. It is best if you have a shower together, or indulge in a bathtub to relax yourselves, whereby you wash each other with gentle movements.

Now you can start

Start slowly. Be aware that the objective of a massage is to relax your partner. This will only be achieved if you completely surrender yourselves to the massage and the way it is done.  
Devote your attention to every part of his or her body. Carefully monitor the responses and take them into account further on. To start with, use genle movements that barely touch the body so your loved one will get goose bumps and be ready for unforgettable feelings that still await him or her.

Then rub a massage oil over the palms of your hands (oils in the form of soap are also good for a massage – you can buy them in shops with natural products) and begin giving a massage.

How? Like this.

There is no specific plan how to go about with a massage but to say the following: “Get to know and listen to your body and the body of your partner.” Those who know the body of the person with whom they are sleeping are considered the greatest masters of thrills in bed.

The basic guideline for a massage is touch and it is therefore important that you touch your partner all the time. This means that you try to maintain permanent contact with fluids and movements while you explore the body of your partner, which will also increase the level of intimacy. If you are not certain what the person to whom you are giving a massage likes, ask him or her and listen to his or her wishes. Partner’s breathing is a perfect indicator of feelings as well. If the partner is breathing deeply, you are definitely on the right track. Movements should be equal, rhythmical and symmetrical at the beginning so the partner will know what to expect and will be able to relax even more. Later you can use each hand to explore a different part of the body and in this way surprise your loved one because he or she will not know what comes next.  

Are you wondering where to begin? Take into consideration the feelings of your partner. There is no rule. It depends on the desires of person to whom you give a massage. Of course, it is recommended that you spend more time on erogenous zones, and massage more erogous and less erogenous zones in turn. If you give an erotic massage for the first time, it is perhaps more recommended that you do it from the neck towards the feet and spend some time massaging every finger separately. The feet are very erogenous and are often ignored in sexual intercourse. Otherwise, try to experiment. For instance, take off your clothing while you give a massage and slide your genitals over the partner’s back. In this way, expectation will constantly grow. For instance, when you slide over her genital area with your abdomen and slide your finger inside the next time and constantly return, or when you first go round his penis with gentle movements and then hold it more firmly in your hands, mutual pleasure is definitely assured. Use your imagination!

How to use your hands?

There is no right or wrong way. Maybe you just take into consideration the guideline that you use gentler movements on more sensitive and erogenous parts and firmer grips on large and strong muscles, such as thigh and shoulder muscles. You can also use scratching and circular movements as well as explore with your tongue – you will quickly find out what your partner likes and wants. After a massage you can change places, although we very much doubt that you will reach this stage or end with the massage. If you did it well and if the time is right, already in the middle of the massage your hands will not be the bussiest part any more.

Next time more about specific ideas for an erotic massage!