Are You Ready for a Menage a Trois?

It's mostly men who fantasize about having a ménage a trois. What does a threesome mean for a serious, long-term relationship?

 

Menage a trois - the most common men's sexual fantasy. (jlp)


A ménage a trois or a threesome is a “fantasy” many people want to try at least once in their lives. Especially blokes. It is basically a “mini orgy” involving three people (there can be various combinations of men and women) that sexually satisfy one another and have intercourse.


Why is a threesome so desirable?

Well, many people want to try something new and more exciting. Others think that the attention they receive during ordinary intercourse is not enough. Some people want a threesome because it is something out of the ordinary or even “forbidden”, or maybe because they want exciting sex with no romantic involvement.


Doing it the wrong way

Many horny men want, in any way, to try a threesome with their partner, even though she is not into that kind of sexual entertainment. Sometimes “forcing” a partner into doing something she really does not want to do as much as you can be a very selfish move.



Do you really want to do it or are you only fulfilling your partner's wish? (jlp)


Many times, this can be your excuse for you to cheat on her without getting caught.
All the people, whose partners try to convince you into having a threesome, think twice if you really want to be with someone who does not respect your feelings. If you decided to have a threesome to bring life into a decaying relationship, or to detract your partner from cheating on you, this will most likely not have the desired effect.


When everything goes wrong...

A long-term relationship and a threesome – it does not sound promising, does it?



Jealousy is the real problem here. (jlp)


When a woman suggests a ménage a trois to a man, he can become insecure, thinking that he does not satisfy her enough, so she wants an additional partner. Women can become jealous as well – he wants her more than me. You can also find out that your supposedly “straight” partner has bisexual or even homosexual tendencies, which he/she has not yet told you about. A threesome can thus be a very delicate matter.


How to get a threesome started?

Some try it with friends, others look for partners with the help of advertisements, others go to swinger clubs or parties. How to get a threesome started is left to your imagination. Just like with ordinary intercourse, there are no real rules. It is merely important that all the participants enjoy themselves and are satisfied.

 

Do not be disappointed

As we have already mentioned, it is not good to have romantic expectations with a ménage a trois. A threesome is based on pleasure and not a romantic relationship, so be careful not to be too disappointed at the end.

And another tip: better not to get involved with someone you see at work every day because this can be a very bad move.

 

 

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